MESSAGE FOR MEN

A Message for MEN

Please, sit while you use the sanitary vase at your home. It is recommendable that you sit while you pee, simply for the fact that your body will change positions, and give the bladder a good squeeze.  Besides, when you pee while standing you are splashing all over the place. In a public place, the use of urinals while standing is completely normal.  At home, sit and pee. Don’t see yourself less masculine just because you decided to sit while peeing.  By doing it at home, your wife will never complain about the toilet cover being open. Both will do the same. Well, it is not too late – teach your children that this behavior has nothing to do with sexuality, but with hygiene. It is that simple! 

Mortes num lugar comum

Mortes num lugar comum

As vezes me pergunto se o diabo esta presente na vida de todas as pessoas ou se ele escolhe certas pessoas para fazer seu trabalho sujo. De uma forma ou de outra, existe pessoas que praticam atos que somente o diabo poderia explicar os motivos. Pra comecar gostaria de salientar que este texto podera lhe causar mal estar, mas trata-se de verdades, e as vezes e bom estarmos alertas para os acontecimentos da vida.

Relatarei aqui alguns fatos obtidos atravez de livros que li, de reportagens que participei, de programas de Televisao que assisti no assunto, e tambem de pesquizas nos artigos publicos, avaliaveis tambem na internet. Os nomes sao verdadeiros, como os fatos podem ser verificados por completo

Dotor de Auschwitz, conhecido como o anjo da morte se chamava Joseph Mengele, e ele era um lider na area de visao biomedicas e fazia experimentacoes na area de genetica. Durante o Holocausto, Dr. Mengele era o irresponsavel responsavel pelo processo de selecao, ou seja, ele decidia quem ia morrer ou sobreviver, entre os pririoneiros Judeus que eram transportdos para os campos de concentracao. Durante as manhas ele chegava elegantemente vestido e num olhar decidia o destino das pessoas. Qualquer probleminha criado entre prisioneiros que nao queriam ser separados da familia, eram resolvidos com todos mortos a tiros, ou surrados ali mesmo. Este medico nao tinha consciencia, e mandava para os tanques de gas os “imperfeitos”, seja na altura ou na cor dos olhos. Porem, ele tinha uma inclinacao muito grande em preservar os gemeos, quais eram destinados ao seu laboratorio.  Mengele era imprevisivel. As vezes, sem mais nem menos, ele vestia o chapeu de medico e salvava uma familia inteira. O importante para ele era ter o poder de vida e morte em suas maos. Para faciliar o processo de matar com mais rapidez, Mengele ensinou varios medicos a aplicarem injecoes letais. Ha reportagens de que ele ate jogava criancas no crematorio enquanto vivas.

Mengele era fissurado pela sua pesquiza sobre gemeos. Ele efetuava todos os tipos de testes para compara-los, e alguns ele ate matava pelo simples fato de aperfeicoar sua patologia. Ele dissecava os corpos ele mesmo, e ate preservava algumas partes. Mengele ate efetuava operacoes sem anestezias. Ele removia os orgaos sexuais, e ate fez operacoes de troca de sexo.  Ele injetava varias substancias em criancas somente para ver como eles reagiam. Se um gemeo morresse, o outro, assim, nao tinha nenhuma serventia.  Seu grande objetivo era fazer com que olhos castanhos virassem azuis. Ele injetava quimicos nos olhos das criancas e causava muita dor e as vezes cegueira, e morte, mas nunca aclancou o seu objetivo.

Em resumo, Mengele queria fazer sucesso na area de cultivacao genetica de uma raca superior, branca, e a posicao que ele exerceu no campo de concentracao alimentou seu desejo de ser um deus. Ele guardou notas de suas pesquizas, mas muitos documentos form perdidos. Depois da Guerra, Menguele escapou da prisao e foi pra Argentina, aonde viveu seus ultimos anos de vida e faleceu em 1979.

Enquanto sabemos que a marioria dos medicos e enfermeiros entram na profissao para salvar vidas, entendemos que o fato de causar dor ou destruir um ser nem passa pela cabeca destes profissionais. Mas, infortunadamente ha medicos que machucam, e eles sao dificeis de se detectar, e mais precisamente, de para-los. Alguns sao cautelosos, e buscam as vitimas ja vulneraveis para praticar seus planos. Outros sao protegidos pelo proprio estabelecimento aonde trabalham.

Quero mostar alguns casos veridicos aonde psicopatas nao sao capturados porque ninguem escuta as reclamacoes.

Dr. Michael Swango, enquanto fazia residencia no Ohio State University Medical Center, aproveitou um momento em que as enfermeiras estava ocupadas e se prontificou a dar assistencia a uma senhora de idade, Ruth Barrick, que havia caido e batido a cabeca, mas depois da operacao ela ja estava passndo bem. Um estudante em treinamento nao pode ficar sozinho com nenhum paciente, mas isso nao parou Swango de deligar os aparelhos. Quando as enfermeiras chegaram ao quarto, viram miss Barrick incosciente, e efetuaram respiracao boca a boca, enquanto uma enfermeira escutou Dr Swango dizer que isso era nogento. Ruth morreu ali mesmo, e a enfermeira achava que Dr. Swango tinha alguma coisa com isso. Tudo ficou por isso mesmo. Durante seu tempo neste hospital cinco pacientes faleceram, e muitos ficaram terrivelmente doentes.

Nao era somente em estabelecimentos medicos que Dr. Swango praticava malicias. Ele colocava veneno na comida dos outros, e em crianca adorava mutilar animais. Dr. Swango sentia prazer em anunciar aos parentes que o paciente havia falecido. Isso causava a ele um tipo de climax.

Nao entendo como esta pessoa conseguiu permancer como medico por 20 anos e trabalhar sete hospitais.

O Autor de “Blind eye”, James Stwart, que passou dois anos documentando a vida deste medico disse que ele nunca iria parar.

Somente em 1970 Dr. Swang confessou apenas dar veneno a tres pacientes, e a morte de Ruth. Os outros incidents nao poderiam ser levados a justica porque nao havia provas suficientes para condena-lo. Mesmo assim Dr. Swango recebeu como sentenca vida na prisao.

Durante toda a historia sempre houve medicos que matam. Os motivos pelo qual levam um medico a matar sao variados e dificieis de entender e decifrar. Pra comecar, os medicos fazem um juramento de fazer tudo o que tiver no poder deles pra manter um ser vivo. Os que nao seguem este juramento veem seus pacientes como um experimento, e o motivo para eles serem medicos parece ser mais sobre poder , dinheiro, e controle, do que ajudar a curar. Estes tipos de crimes nao sao faceis de provar, pois podem ser apagados se o paciente ja e velho ou se ja tem uma doenca mais seria. Uma injecaozinha nao faria mais diferenca.  

Ha medicos que tornam um caso comum numa emergencia na qual eles podem ser o ator principal. Assim eles demonstram capacidade entre os colegas e ganham respeito entre todos. Mesmo que o paciente venha a morrer, o medico fez tudo o que pode e ainda e um heroi.

Ha medicos que tem compaixao demais, e prescrevem muita morfina para o paciente que sofre, assim ele logo morre. Um medico chamado Bodkins, John foi incriminado por 21 mortes em 1957 quando 40 de seus pacientes faleceram por circunstancias misteriosas. Ele nao considerava isso um assassinato, e acabou sendo absolvido das mortes.

Ha medicos que matam para cobrir um crime ja cometido, como a falsificacao de uma heranca, ou a ganancia pelos bens do paciente.

Alguns medicos se aproveitam de sua profissao pra expressar seu intimo proposito de assassinar, e geralmente estes sao de um grupo mais distinto porque tem como objetivo uma experiencia.

Um dos maiores pesadelos para um pai ou mae de familia e deixar seus filhos nas maos de uma baba que tem intencoes de causar danos a crianca. E raro para nos assumirmos que um ser que entra numa profissao de enfermeira, qual faz seu juramento, fosse preferir ver as criancas morrerem do que ve-las sadias.  Este caso teve uma investigacao enorme e quebrou as paredes do professionalismo mentiroso, e com isso, quase destruiu a carreira de todos os que ali trabalhavam.

Uma enfermeirra chamada Genene Ann Jones era uma enfermeira com bom atributos e boas referencias. Uma vez empregada na Clinica Pediatrica in Kerville, Texas, (clinica aonde criancas usavam como jardim de infancia), foi observado que varias criancas estavam tendo sintomas de ataques. As criancas, sete delas, foram trnsportdas ao hospital Sid Peterson, mas ninguem suspeitava que os ataques fossem causados por alguem. Porem, pelo numero de criancas que foram parar no hospital, alguns membros da clinica achavam que algo muito estranho tivesse acontecendo.

A dona da Clinica, Dr. Kathleen Holland, quando questionada confirmou que nao tinha a menor ideia porque estas criancas estavam sofrendo em sua clinica, e por milagre, todas as criancas se recuperaram, enquanto no hospital. Porem, uma crianca de 2 anos, Chelsea McClellan, faleceu no caminho ao hospital. Dr. Holland estava desvastada, e tambem os pais da crianca, pois Chelsea nem mostrava sintomas de doenca quando comecou a frequentar a clinica.

Nao muito tempo depois, a enfermeira Genene informou Dr. Holland que ela havia encontrado um vidro, meio aberto, com succinylcholine, um poderoso relaxador de musculos, qual hvia sido reportado desaparecido algumas semanas antes. Ao observer o vidro, Dr. Holland notou que a tampa havia sido perfurada com agulhas de injecoes. Uma vez testado, foi detectado que havia um quimico chamado salina. Alguem estava usando o veneno e colocando algo diferente para que o vidro pareca cheio. A droga foi usada e a causa desta droga seria paralizacao completa e um inferno no corpo.

Somente tres anos depois que comecaram a observar que nas “passagens” de Genene havia pelo menos 50 mortes de criancas enquanto ela trabalhava no Hospital Bexar County Medical Center pelo periodo de quarto anos. O corpo de Chelsea McClellan foi exumado e tissues do corpo testado para toxicos, aonde ainda acusava grande quantidade do relaxante.

Jones foi pega, porem pela morte de uma crianca, e julgada por dois atos, um de envenenar seis criancas e o outro matar uma.

Para todos que conheciam Genene, isso nao veio de surpresa porque ela tinha a tendencia de mentir, manipular os amigos e tambem de trair. Tentaram de todas as formas buscarem desculpas para tal ato, e por final foi concluido que a morte de seu irmao quando crianca causou esta corrente de pensamentos negativos em sua vida. Outros ate achavam que devido ao fato dela ser feia, e em desespero por atencao, aprendeu a ganhar atencao atravez de mentiras. Genene casou-se jovem, porem logo em seguida ja comecou a trair o marido com medicos. Para ela um medico era um deus, e ela se sentia atraida aos medicos. Logo que descobriu esta atracao, ela deixou de ser cabelereira para entrar na vocacao de enfermeira. No comeco tudo parecia bem, mas ela sempre se sentia por baixo da hierarquia medica.

A vida trabalhistta de Genene nao teve muito sucesso porque ela se metia nas areas aonde nao era de sua competencia e dava conselhos aos medicos e ate tomava iniciativa propria. Os pacientes sempre reclamavam de sua attitude, e assim ela pulava de trabalho a trabalho ate poder entao estacionar por quarto anos no Bexar County Medical Center. Foi ali que ela entao deixou suas marcas, sempre se cuidando para nao ser mandada embora. Devido ao fato dela ter ficado longas horas cuidando de pacientes, e demonstrdo uma grande vontade de subir, ela foi promovida como chefa das enfermeiras. Isso lhe subiu a cabeca, e nao por muito tempo as reclamacoes das enfermeiras chegavam, mas pouco se escutava, e nada se fazia. Genene se sentia invencivel.  Genene nao adimitia seus erros, e logo comecou a despedir enfermeiras que penetravam em seu caminho.

Antes de sua saida do hospital, Genene era a irresponsavel responsavel pelos pacientes mais doentes, ou seja, com doencas terminais. Isso a colocou perto daqueles que morriam com mais frequencia. Os colegas percebiam que ela ficava feliz quando havia emergencias, e ate demonstrava tristeza quando uma crianca falecia. Era comum a necessidade de ressucitacao artificial, e principalmente qundo ela estava envolta.  Os doentes criticos estavam sob os cuidados dela. Uma crianca teve ataques tres dias seguidos, porem somente durante seu turno. Uma vez ela falou a outra enfermeira que eles iriam imaginar que ela fosse o anjo da morte. Em fato, alguns de seus colegas chamarao seu horario de turno da morte.

Uma crianca foi enviada a secao pediatrica do hospital para se recuperar de uma operacao de coracao aberto. Em principio a crianca se recuperou, mas no turno de Genene, tudo foi por agua abaixo. A crianca faleceu e Genene usou a seringa para fazer o sinal da cruz.

Tres meses depois de tantas emergencies internas um comite foi formado para discutir o assunto, e para a surpresa de todos Genene resignou sua posicao. Os problemas tambem foram embora. Porem, Genene sentiu maior poder, pois se escapou sem punicao.

Mesmo tendo sido informada para nao adimitir Genene, Dr. Holland decidiu adimitir Genene, vendo ela como uma vitima de tantas conversas sem provas. Mal sabia Dr. Holland que esta enfermeira iria acabar com sua carreira, seu casamento e tambem com sua clinica.

Durante o julgamento, Genene foi apresentada como possuidora de um complexo de heroi. Ela maltratava os pacientes para depois virar a heroina na salvacao. Ela queria trazer mais pacientes para a sua unidade, e quando via alguma crianca melhorando, ela logo dava um jeito de faze-lo sofrer. Genene foi condenada a 159 anos de prisao, mas provavelmente sera solta em menos de 25 anos.  Embora ela tenha sido suspeita na morte de outras criancas, as evidencias foram destruidas. O Hospital pagou as vitimas, mas nada pode fazer para provar os acontecimentos.

Durante o funeral de Chelsea, Genene participou, chorou, e ate chamou o nome da crianca.  A mae observou isso, e acabou chorando mais. Por mais estranho que isso se pareca, estamos tratando aqui de uma enfermeira que era supostamente encarregada de ajudar a salvar uma vida, e que resolve matar.

Um outro caso muito estranho aconteceu durante a primeira Guerra mundial em Hungary. Por um periodo de 10 anos muitas pessoas estavam falecendo nesta vila de Tisza. Uma mulher chamada Julius Fazekas cuidava das pessoas que tinham emergencies medicas. Ela era tambem uma parteira, e tinha uma tecnica que ajudava as mulheres a se livrarem de gravidez atravez de abortos.

Muitos homens foram a Guerra nesta epoca, mas tambem ficou outros homens na cidade, e brevemente os servicos de Fazekas se fizeram necessarios. Alem dos abortos, ela tambem criava venenos, em tiras de arsenico e vendia pra quem quizesse na cidade. Pelo menos umas cinquenta pessoas compraram os venenos, e brevemente havia morte por todos os lados na cidade. Em fato, algumas mulheres decidiram se livrar nao somente do inconveniente marido que chegou da Guerra, mas tambem comecaram a envenenar os parentes que nao gostavam e ate as criancas. Ocasionalmente elas se envenenavam umas as outras. Marie Kardos matou seu marido, seu amante e seu filho de 23 anos. Antes do filho morrer, ela pediu que ele cantasse pra ela. Sabendo que ele havia sido envenenado, ela queria ouvir a sua voz se dissipar. Dando testemunho anos depois, Marie ainda achava isso alegre. Outra mulher, Maria Varga matou sete membros de sua familia, e considerou a morte de seu marido, um presente de natal pra ela mesma.

Isso somente parou quando um medico de uma cidade vizinha comecou a fazer autopsias e descobrir veneno nos corpos. Um comecou a acusar o outro ate que todos os involvidos foram levados a justica. Isso levou 15 anos, e neste meio tempo nao se parava de matar aqui e acola. Foram 38 pessoas presas e 26 mulheres foram julgadas. A conclusao que foi chegada e que estas mulheres agiram assim devido a promiscuidade que estavam participando.

Mudando de Medico para Enfermeiras, um livro chamado  “The Sisterhood, escrito por Michael Palmer, demonstra um grupo de enfermeiras que iniciaram uma organizacao para ajudar as pessoas morrerem em hospitais por todo o paiz. “Enfermeiras se unem para o perdao”, as jaquetas descreviam, “unidas para acabar com o sofrimento”. Porem, dentro da organizacao alguns “mercy-killers” tomaram as coisas muito adiante e pacientes que deveriam sobreviver acabaram morrendo. Isto e uma historia de ficcao, porem o que vem a seguir, nao!

Em 1983, em Vienna, Austria, no Lainz General Hospital uma enfermeira chamada Waltraud Wagner estava na missao de matar. Durante uma investigacao, se percebeu que no periodo de seis anos mais de 100 pessoas estavam falecendo a torto e a direito.

Wagner estava com 23 anos de idade quando ela tomava conta de uma velhinha de 77 anos, que havia pedido a Wagner que desse a ela uma dosagem grande de morfina para acabar com a sua miseria. Logo que a dosagem foi aplpicada, Wagner sentiu em sua pele o sabor de ter este poder. Assim ela se submeteu a trabalhar no turno da noite, e com a ajuda de duas outras loucas, Llene Leidolf, de 21 anos, e Maria Gruber de 19 elas comecaram um paivilhao da morte dentro do hospital. Wagner ensinou as outras como dar injecao letal, e adicinou outros mecanismos em sua criacao. Ela chamava isso “a cura atravez da agua”. Isso envolvia segurar o nariz do paciente e faze-lo engolir, criando uma morte agonizante que enchia os pulmoes de agua, mas nao foi descoberto como foram assassinatos.

Quando um paciente pedia demais, ou reclamava, ele tinha sua entrevista marcada com Deus. Inicialmente as mortes eram mais esporadicas, mas por volta de 1988 comecaram a subir. Havia rumores de que um assassino estava a solta no pavilhao cinco do hospital. Area dos doentes terminais.  

Uma vez, enquanto bebendo vinho num restaurante, e falando alto, uma delas comentou que uma paciente mereceu seu destino, porem um medico na mesa seguinte escutou, e logo em seguida saiu correndo em direcao a policia. Uma investigacao foi lancada, e em menos de seis semanas todas foram presas. Uma vez presas, elas contaram que mataram 49 pessoas. Wagner se sentia a heroina em todos os casos, pois havia matado 39 destas 49 sozinha. Porem, se estima que ela tenha matado mais de 200 pessoas.

Wagner foi condenada por vida na prisao, e as outras por 15 anos. Observe que uma vez que voce for absolvido de um crime, voce nao pode mais ser julgado por aquele crime. E neste caso, hoje sabemos como ocorreram, mas nao se pode provar, pois no hospital aonde elas trabalhavam somente pessoas com doencas terminais estavam internadas, e muitos ja eram idosos.

Em 1975, um hospital em Michigan sofreu uma elevacao no numero de mortes durante o verao. Uns 40 pacientes morreram por falta de ar. Em alguns casos foi feito toxicologia e observado um excesso de Pavulon, um remedio pra relaxar os musculos, mas quando for demais paraliza. Durante a investigacao duas enfermeiras foram levadas ao tribunal, porem absolvidas por falta de provas. As enfermeiras se chamavam: Lenora Perez e Filipina Narciso, ambas de Phillippines. O Hospital se chama Veteran Administration Hospital in Ann Harbor. Ate hoje isso permanence um misterio.

Em 1980, no Hospital for Sick Children em Toronto houve uma elevacao no numero de criancas morrendo na area cardiaca do hospital. Morreram no minimo umas 30 criancas, e as mortes pareciam suspiciosas. Numa autopsia foi revelado grande dosagem de uma droga chamada Digoxin, uma droga para regular o ritmo. Uma investigacao ocorreu e uma enfermeira, Susan Nelles, foi acusada, mas enquanto ela estava presa mais mortes estavam acontecendo, e com o mesmo veneno, ate que outras enfermeiras estavam sendo vitimas de veneno em suas refeicoes, e concluiram que nao era Susan, mas algo mais sinistro. Acusaram por todos os lados, e ate hoje nao se sabe a origem.

Seja uma pessoa sozinha ou um grupo de pessoas, masculinos ou femininos. Pessoas que supostamente deveriam cuidar estao fazendo o contrario. Nao tenho a menor ideia a motivacao, mas se percebe que seguem uma certa categoria.

Comeca com um sentimento de invencibilidade, misturado com uma falta de atencao, e logo se transforma num termo chamado o Sindrome de Munchausen by proxy. Uma enfermeira que sofre esta doenca e capaz de fazer um paciente sofrer, e sua motivacao e de manter o medico, qual ela se sente enfatuada, mais proximo ao paciente, e assim, mais proximo dela, que esta encarregada do tal paciente.  Os que sofrem deste syndrome sabem mentir em detalhes minusculos e nao se sentem culpados. Eles querem atencao, e o resto nao faz sentido. Quando nao for atencao do medico e atencao do paciente, e assim por diante.

Outros ja sao psicopatas porque nao demonstram nenhum sentimento de remorse por atos que cometem. Buscam hospitais para efetuar os crimes porque nao se detecta com facilidade suas brutalidades. Muitos psicopatas agem com raiva pelas pessoas, e somente podems ser detectados qundo alguem os observa continuamente. ISso nao e facil num hospital.

Existe tambem os medicos e enfermeiras que agem por dinheiro, e trabalham maquiavelicamente ate conseguirem que um testamento seja mudado, ou algo seja doado. Uns ate se sujeitam a matar para poder receber parte do seguro de vida.

Amy Archer-Gilligan foi acusada de matar seus pacientes numa spa. La os pacientes eram privados de comida, e assinavam tudo pra ela.

Anna Marie Hahn, da Alemanha, veio pra America e praticou o ato de ganhar as herancas dos pacientes. Depois de enriquecer, ela continuou, e numa investigacao detectaram que ela dava veneno aos pacientes. Esta foi a primeira mulher a ser executada na cadeira eletrica nos Estados Unidos.

Kristen Gilbert matava os pacientes pra poder ver o seguranca do hospital, qual ela estava enfatuada.

Gwedolyn Gail Graham e Catherine May Wood, two lesbians, comecarm matar pacientes como se fosse um joguinho, e comecaram para formar a palavra MATAR. Matando os pacientes que tinham o nome M, depois A, e assim por diante, e enquanto faziam isso, sentiam prazer sexual etc.

As pessoas que se aproveitam de doentes, estao preenchendo uma necessidade quais elas foram deprivadas na infancia. Elas nao se importam com os codigos penais, leis, e muitos sao sadistas. O que e pior e que todos nos ficamos com menos confianca nos hospitais, nos medicos, nas enfermeiras. Nos sofremos mais, e a sociedade inteira se transforma em vitima.

Parece que nao vai parar to cedo.

Vickie Dawn Jackson injetou relaxante nos pacientes em 2002, Texas. 4 foram provados.

Christine Malevre matou varios pacientes entre 1997 e 1998. 7 foram provados. Ela escreveu um .livro sobre seus atos chamado “my confessions”.

Muitos pesquisam sobre como observer os cuidadores de pessoas que podem ser criminosos. Acham-se que as enfermeiras compulsivas. As que mantem muito segredo, e que estao constantemente nas areas de emergencies devem ser observadas com mais cuidado.

Deve se observer se existe mais mortes durante este ou outro peridodo, e quem esta trabalhando nos periodos em questao. Observar se alguma morte nao era esperada, ou se a morte foi por motivos diferentes daqueles esperados. Observar quem esta sempre pronto para ajudar, ou quem foi o ultimo que passou com a vitima. Observar se a pessoa qual se suspeita tem trabalhado em outras areas aonde ocorreram mortes. Observar se alguem o chama de anjo da morte. Observar se a enfermeira tem muito interesse em morte. Ver as reclamacaoes dos pacientes em relacao a tal enfermeira. Observe se a enfermeira mantem segredos sobre sua vida pessoal, ou se e muito solitaria. Isso chamamos de bandeiras vermelhas, e devem ter valor devido muitas as pessoas que focam captadas terem isso em comum.

Suicide is not the answer, by Milton Laene Araujo

SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER!

I am not going to start with statistics, or other information about why and how people commit suicide. People go through hardships in life, and if you think about it, life is not easy in any aspect.

You cost a pretty penny to be born – You are born wet and naked. As you saw the light of the day for the first time, your lungs inhaled air and you cried. Your first cry brought joy to everyone around you, especially to your caretakers. For five years of your life you have someone around. They are watching you, feeding and providing comfort to you as much as they have for themselves, if not more.

You think, therefore you are!

Sooner than expected you are a being with a mind of your own. As soon as you think, you feel the reality of your existence in this space and time. You think about sleeping time, playing time, studying time. You learn some likes and dislikes of your life, and you think about them too. You discover that you want to be loved.

Time flies. You question about your existence. You see yourself in comparison with others. Life has not been as good for you as it has been for others around you. Groups are formed. A complete sense of “not belonging” takes over your existence. You become rebellious at home. You disobey your parents, teachers, and eventually the law. You are controllable.

Sex comes into the picture!

Now you experience sex. You have faced two roads diverging. Both will take you into a path of uncertainty, and bring you back into the same path you had before.  I will clarify this by stating that, before you have sex for the first time, you were more controllable. Yes, you were a teenager, and your hormones were unbalanced, but you were not the first teenager that ever existed, and your parents know well that this age group is the hardest one to deal with. It comes with the package. The body is changing both physically and mentally. At this time you have a conscious and a personality to develop. If you chose to develop your conscious side, the road would not diverge. You would have listened to your parents, and do as told. But once you had sex, you automatically chose to develop your personality side, the side that wants you to fit in at all cost into the popular group of friends, you will travel into the path of uncertainty, created by you in cahoots with your group. Only among your pears you feel social adequacy. It is missing home adequacy.

Sex among teens can be influenced by peer pressure, drugs, alcohol, pot, parties, etc. The path of uncertainty starts with an infatuation. At this time, the entire consciousness has been shut off. Let me remind you that personality develops as consciousness shrinks. They are the opposite. You can not have both at full array. As a personality person, you start to take care of your body physically, and want to show it off, as if this is the most gorgeous thing you will ever have, and it will remain the same forever. See here that a touch with reality has vanished, and this is why this path is dark. Jealousy comes into play immediately after sex. Battles are fought between girls for one guy who plays with both at the same time. Usually no one blames the guy. Other battles are fought among peers who feel alienated or undesirable. Personality people want attention. They crave for admiration and sell themselves to satisfy a lust that only sex will remediate.

Parents lose control of their teens!

Once sex got into the picture, school became secondary, new friends are on the horizon, drugs are at play and personality people are together socializing while playing the blame game. Priorities have been changed, and parents have not a clue how to modify it. Parents forgot that their children copy what they see outside when they miss it inside their home.

Most people use their personality phase for about fifteen years of their existence, and then shift into consciousness for the remaining of their lives. It is very important to have a good personality because it attracts others into your realm of existence, as it is very important to be an individual. When you balance both, you live a full life with love for others and a sense respect for their individuality. It is not as important to be important, as it is important to be good to others. 

When teens are getting in trouble, parents need to intervene immediately. But remember. You are to be blamed! Start with apologizing for not being there when it started, and give the teen a chance to explain how it all begun. Embrace your child’s problem as yours and fight with your child to overcome. Not against your child. It doesn’t mean picking up a fight with others either. It means to find out what personality phase your child is experiencing. Has drugs been involved, has sex been a part of it? It is infatuation?

Stay closer to your teen and monitor every friend and conversation. This is your obligation. Check phone, text messages, school bag, etc. to find out what little person you are being responsible for. Until your child is 18 you have the obligation to educate, discipline, control and participate. This is a mission you have with life. Ask for help, find help.

One to Blame

Everyone has something or someone to blame for their problems in life. We start with our parents and the way they educated us. Either we come from a broken home, or a dysfunctional family, or divorced parents, or from an orphanage, we always will hang on something to justify our choices in life, and therefore blame it for. When we can not do it, others will do it for us. It is very convenient to find others to blame. It is time to stop this cycle. It is old and passé.

Now you are going to have a baby!

You are only a teen! What to do? The baby is your brother’s baby. The baby has no father. The father doesn’t want the baby. Oh Gosh! You have a problem in your hands. What to do? For starters, you have a home. You have parents and you have a family that you abandoned. You feel all alone. Remember that you abandoned them but they do not you. They hate your actions because of their love for you. If they truly dislike you, they would not care and you would not be worried about them. Now the damage has been made, and it is time to clean up the mess. Take responsibility and share with your guardians your problem. Be honest, and you will be set free of this worry. Reveal what is happening and for one time face life as it is, and not as you have created in your head. To have a baby while teen is not a big deal. It happens every day people have sexual intercourse without protection. The problem will be after birth. Are you going to create a person the way you were created? Are you going to rear with discipline? What are you going to do? Well, you are faced with the same challenges expressed in the beginning of this post. The solution is to talk with an adult. The gift of life is never a problem.

Now you are hooked on drugs!

Wow, it must be terrible, for you need money to buy it and you may not have. At least you will not overdose. But kidding aside, drugs are a drag. The high once acquired will never return, but the search for the same high will remain. Free base is not free, for it can cost you a house, family, friends and even yourself. Drugs are depressant, and sooner or later you will be depressed. Only another shot will put you back in track, or so you think, and this way you are killing yourself one day at a time, and leaving traces of disagreements and unhappiness among everyone you touch. Most addicts commit crimes. The end is in a cell or on rehabilitation facilities. Drug is not a solution, but it is there and you need to learn to live with it, and not be a part of it. Most addicts have a family. They come from some place; they were somebody else one time. Drugs changed them, and we need to accept the fact that this force was greater than his force to resist. We need to extend a hand and offer help. In other words, addiction is bad, but it can be cured only with love and care.

Love Triangle!

If involved in a love triangle, get out! I know you can not hear me, but this is the worse love situation a human being can get exposed to. It always has bad ramifications. Not long ago, only guys used to go after girls for sex, but nowadays, it is the opposite. Girls will do whatever they can to have sex with guys. There are girls who are popular in school because they use boy’s restrooms to give anyone who is interested a blow job. You can not imagine how creative teens are nowadays. They are aggressive towards sex, and when infatuated, no one can change it. They will have sex at all cost. In most love triangle, one guy usually plays with two girls mind until a fight occurs between the girls, who for stupid reason, hate one another and compete for the same guy. It has to do with sex. Usually, in a love triangle parties involved are not aware that they are not the only ones, but when they know about the third person, they enjoy the secrecy and practicing sex with more intensity. Secrecy can make sex very intense, therefore partners continue in a love triangle for as long as it is not known by the third party. Once it comes out, the girls are the ones to suffer. Do not ask me why, but in most love triangle where two girls fought for one guy, they never blamed the guy. Yet, he was the main reason why they were in that place to begin with. Love triangle usually happens when couples decide to try something else, and end up agreeing in having a threesome, but later, one party can not disconnect from the other. While it is a secret, love making takes its toll and both party feel in love. Off course, they are in love with their lives in that present moment, while sex is good and the conversation is light. But not in love enough to the point of being honest and come clean. An affair with bad consequences is about to happen. Everyone will be hurt. Love triangle can and has ended in tragedy. If you are involved in a love Triangle, just remember that you are up to deception. Chances are you a more personality person than consciousness person, and you let your personality take over your life, making it impossible to love with full array of human emotions. Your love is not real. It feels real, but it is an obsession. It is a drug and you are addicted to it. You become blind and the only remedy is to remove this person from your system. True love comes with responsibility. It comes with truthfulness of who you are in relation to the person you love. It means that you are honest and sincere about your feelings. You respect the other being as you want to be respected. This is love. The rest is obsession, confusion, lust, and lack of love. My advice is: Do not be cruel. Do not through it out there for everyone to talk about. Be discrete, end the relationship and relate where you are with your partner. Be honest and ask for help in find out if what you really feel is love or if it is something else. I know it is something else, but you need to have this doubt to start the process of seeing it more clearly. Once it is not a secret, you have a choice or a choice will be presented to you. If you slept with your brother’s wife, it also can be fixed. It took two to do it, and off course, alcohol and whatever was involved. Again, it is something that makes who you are, and you can not ignore the fact that others depend upon you, therefore you need to be clean, and face the consequences. We are all humans and we all make mistakes. No mistake is greater enough to prevent a bigger force to dissipate.

In this life you have a choice!

It is easy for me to say that a person who contemplates suicide has been placed in a predicament. However, it is not easy for me to distinguish whether this predicament is mental or physical. Physical is easier to fix, for it involves money, betrayal, shame, sickness in the family, lost of a loved one or a child, or lost of something as big as a career, status, fame etc. Mental, on the other hand is not easy to fix, for it involves lack of desire to live, medical depression and social inadequacy.

Our brain is responsible for our moods. When you are happy, you feel and act happy and when you are sad we feel and act sad. There are many factors that can make you sad, but usually there are more factors that make you happy. For example: you have a life and you can create great things for others while you are here. You can have a family of our own, you can enjoy a warm bath, you can drive, etc. You are free to do many things. If your brain only brings sad thoughts, you need to see a doctor, who will prescribe a small dosage of medication to your brain that would balance chemically your brain fluids and present you with a moderate mood. When depressed, you lose your physical desire to move. Depression alone can make you have suicidal thoughts, but you can conquer it by taking proper medication. First and foremost, tell a doctor or a suicidal hotline how you feel, and if it is a medical depression, you can be treated. Remember that not all brains can produce serotonin in normal quantity for one to function and face reality with eyes wide open. Take your medication and take one day at a time.

Our body responds to our mood, therefore one thing is connected to the other, except that a depression caused because you lost a child or your money is normal to a certain extent. Our brain will not produce a chemical that makes you happy when you are going through sorrows. It would make you crazy if it produced stamina when you need to be calm and in touch with reality. If you were exposed to faith when you were a child, you would overcome the death of a loved one with less trouble. You would understand that your life is precious and that you are protected by many laws that prevent others of causing you harm, to the point where you walk on streets knowing that no one will shoot you just because. You have a certainty of security, but you can not stop others of making their choices, as no one can stop you of making yours. Lives are important, and while you are contemplating suicide, remember that many people will be affected if you go through with it. For starters, they will question for generations why such and such person committed suicide? What could I have done to prevent it? Why we did not see it? Who is going to marry his children, knowing that they may have tendencies to do the same?  Whose fault was it? Was it his mother or his Estranged father? What took him to actually do it? Was it mental? …and the list goes on for many years to come. Then, families will suffer, separate, change sides and start a war among them with the blame game. I do not think it is worth it. To take one’s life for a physical reason is a very selfish way of departure. It is to let the others deal with the situation, as long as you leave some money. This is selfish because you are here to live a life and set examples to others to do the same. You are here to face your problems and resolve them. Cut your losses and live in poverty, but live with dignity. It is even more selfish when one contemplates murder and suicide. It means complete disconnection with others, lack of empathy and lack of divinity. It means that this human being has never felt empathy for anyone. This is not physical.

To summarize, suicide is not the answer because you are a million pieces. Your family gave you love from the first moment you were born. You have others who depend on you. You are loved by many people and your life is very important for the country, which would place in jail anyone who would harm you. You are important for everyone you have been in touch with, and if you were not here, many people’s life will take different turns because of you, who could guide, or direct or even be a friend when they needed you the most. Your departure will cause an effect greater than your imagination can reflect. It will affect everyone’s life, from the person who hears the news to the person who participates in your life. It will be a tragedy for all human beings to know that together no one could prevent it. Your life will have an end only for you. Others will suffer and be tempered for their entire life.

From the moment you thought about suicide, you realized that you are tired or upset or disgusted with life. It is a normal feeling, for no one is happy and dandy all life. This is the reason we have one day after the other. Every day is a new beginning. If life was a parallel with no days and no nights, and time would not pass, then it would be terrible, but life is not this way. Life is taking one day at a time. Life is hard and costly, but we can manage to exist. We make friends to help us in desperate times. You have helped many people in your life even not knowing them. Face the music! Dance. But please, do not end your life short.

I have heard many things about people that take their own lives.

1-     They are insane

2-     They went bankrupt

3-     They lost something

Others use a different approach and say:

1-     They worth more dead than alive

2-     They were not prepared for this or for that

3-     They could not surpass depression

It doesn’t matter what is bothering you, it will come to pass. We have one day after the other with new opportunities. Whatever the problem is, for one minute let me help you. I will listen to you and I will help you to find a solution. I just want to be your eyes and ears for one minute to comprehend what is taking you to this ultimatum sacrifice.

Write to me: Milton@ibt-eft.com and as a subject line write life

Existe ceu e inferno?

O que Acontece depois que morremos? Existe ceu e inferno?

Uma das perguntas mais intrigantes de cada ser humano e a vida depois da morte. Para onde iremos? Existe ceu e inferno?

Usarei a definicao de religiao do wikipedia para poder entao usar esta palavra.
Religião (do latim religare, significando religação com o divino ^[1]) é um conjunto de sistemas culturais e de crenças, além de visões de mundo, que estabelece os símbolos que relacionam a humanidade com a espiritualidade e seu próprios valores morais.^[2] Muitas religiões têm narrativas, símbolos, tradições e histórias sagradas que se destinam a dar sentido à vida ou explicar a sua origem e do universo. As religiões tendem a derivar a moralidade, a ética, as leis religiosas ou um estilo de vida preferido de suas ideias sobre o cosmos e a natureza humana.
Nao e somente por descuido da natureza que hoje vemos varios “destinos” para a nossa alma. Existe mais de  quatro mil religioes ou denominacoes no mundo, e cada uma tem uma resposta. Uma grande quantiade de pessoas acreditam em reincarnacao. A crença de renascer noutro corpo; a crença de que vivemos antes e viveremos novamente noutro corpo após a morte. Era uma crente vulgar nas religiões orientais como o hinduismo e o budismo, mas agora é uma pedra base de teorias como a dianética e o canalizar.
Para as pessoas que acreditam em reincarnacao, apos sua morte, elas serao reincarnadas. Portanto – a resposta para os que acreditam, sera uma confirmacao daquilo que sempre souberam de corpo e alma. Num livro de Carol Bowman, “Return from Heaven” a autora descreve sobre amigos, parentes, reincarnados em sua mesma area. Hoje temos como exemplo de reincarnacao, Dalai Lama que e o decimo quarto de um grupo Tibetan.
Para as pessoas que acreditam que tudo acaba, tudo certamente vai acabar, e aquela alma cessa de existir, pois nao havera busca nem procura – Talvez um resgate.
Em poucas palavras: Cada ser vai experimentar aquilo que colocou sua fe. Cada ser nasce numa area e esta propicio a acreditar naquilo que lhe passam. Trata-se de uma vida digna de ser vivida dentro de um padrao social limitado aquilo que lhe e passado, lido, observado e vivido.
O mais dificil comeca quando somos apresentados a varios ensinamentos religiosos, varias formas de acreditar num fim, e nos perdemos completamente de uma so verdade ou crenca, e passamos a conviver com todas ao mesmo tempo. Um exemplo disso seria um catolico que vai visitar uma cartomante. Ai ja entra conflito de interesses, e o conhecimento abre portas para mais perguntas, mais crencas e assim o ser segue numa vida de busca, com varias respostas e menos certeza.
No momento em que morremos, nosso cerebro comeca a se desconectar eletricamente do nosso organismo devido a falta de exigenio, e esta conexao pode levar varios minutos para concretizar. Embora os aparelhos confirmem a morte, uma parte do cerebro pode trazer ao individuo uma recapitulacao clara daquilo que ele vivenciou, ou escutou, e geralmente isso acontece somente em casos de pessoas que foram detectadas mortas e voltaram, por assim dizer, depois de alguns minutos, e contaram as mesmas historias.
Quando um ser vai e volta, este ser vem modificado pela historia de sua vida, e o tal ultimo grasp de oxigenio que o cerebro recebe e bem maior do que os anteriores, porque antes estava dividindo com outros orgaos, e assim num flash, a pessoa acorda, e os equipamentos voltam a funcionar, e o ser fica entao paralizado temporariamente, mas vivo com as memorias que presenciou…e o medico fica pasmo, a familia acredita, e logo vem um livro contando o que viu, e assim se formam grupos de crentes nesta obervacao de que no alem e assim ou assado.
Depois que morrermos, nossa alma vai ao encontro da luz que nos cria e nos mantem. Seja em forma de alma, de espirito, de energia,ou ate com a mesma forma fisica,  Antes de chegar la ela passara por todos os obstaculos que criamos e nao reparemos. Obstaculos estes que afetaram a nos e tambem ‘aqueles que involvemos.
A nossa vida aqui na terra e uma passagem maxima de 100 anos aonde poderemos criar momentos (ou energias), sejam de bondade, sejam de crueldade. Estas energias terao repercusoes nas vidas que tocamos, e consequentemente em nossas. Veja por exemplo que gastamos mais energia ficando de mal com alguem do que ficando de bem.
Entedemos a diferenca entre Guerra e paz, pois estamos em Guerra desde que o mundo era mundo, porem, cada ser colabora nesta energia de Guerra. Cada ser mantem um sentimento, ou julgamento, baseado naquilo que acredita, ou tem fe. Ha guerras por todos os lados. Dentro de casa, nas ruas da cidade, e.na vida de cada um.
Quando dirigimos um veiculo e nos aproveitamos agressivamente no transito, estamos radiando uma energia de descontentamento, ou de Guerra. Quando roubamos, ou quando nos aproveitamos de qualquer outro ser, estamos criando obstaculos. Estes, refletirao em nossa vida, e na vida dos afetados. Se conseguirmos nos arrrepender completamente daquilo, poderemos ter uma melhor chance de nao sermos atormentados, pois o tormento existe enquanto vivemos. Se procurarmos ver o outro ser humano como uma replica nossa, poderiamos ate ser mais generosos.
Quando eu me pergunto sobre a riqueza do mundo, vejo que esta passando da mao de um para a mao do outro, e sempre aparecendo jovens ficando milionarios. Se eu acreditasse em reincarnacao, poderia deduzir que estes jovens tiveram uma vida passada com muita bondade e filantropia, num mundo aonde somente existiu Guerra, e mereceram ter dinheiro para poder entao fazer algo melhor para aqueles que nao tem. Muitos milionarios ajudam varias causas no mundo. Digo, a maioria deles. Pois doar significa deduzir nos impostos, entao isso se torna quase que uma imposicao. Assim sendo cada milionario tem a sua propria agencia filantropica, nao profitavel, aonde eles podem entao doar diretamente para uma causa que interessa o milionario. Sei que a vida de milionarios nao e um mar de rosas como se pensam. Os artistas sao perseguidos, as princesas sao presas nos palacios, os que saem na rua, saem disfarcados. Por isso nao posso confirmar minha teoria de que os que hoje sao milionarios fizeram somente bondade na vida passada.
A teoria basica da vida e a seguinte:

·        Devemos obedecer as leis criadas pelo homem,

·        Devemos praticar nossa fe seja ela qual for, sendo sempre tolerante as outras praticas, sejam elas quais forem,

·        Devemos ser toleraveis.

·        Devemos ensinar sobre varias religioes aos nossos filhos menores.

Ninguem esta acima da lei. Todo mundo obedece as leis. Elas foram criadas para resolver disputas que acontece entre os seres humanos. Ha lei pra tudo, e a cada dia se criam mais de mil leis que repara esta e aquela, e que tem precedente sobre esta ou aquela.
Todos devem praticar fe em alguma coisa que se relacione com o ser humano, e a sua capacidade de entender perdas sem retaliacoes. Como entender sonhos? Como entender a morte? como entender a razao da vida? Senao por ensinamentos religiosos. Aqueles que nao tem fe em nada vivem como luzes apagadas. Eles nao iluminam.
Se praticamos tolerancia, seremos toleravies. Somente aprenderemos a ser tolerantes quando aprendemos sobre o assunto.
Todo casal que tem bom senso sabe que existe muitas perguntas que somente fe em Deus e a certitude de que tudo ficara bem pode aclamar uma crianca. Elas merecem estarem envolvidas e praticarem a religiao dos pais, pois todas tem um caminho somente – Deus.
Cada qual escolhe o seu caminho, ou a sua forma de praticar e experimentar esta vida. Aquilo que voce acreditar acontecera com voce, e voce vivenciara isso. Entao pergunte a voce mesmo o que acontecera com voce depois que voce falecer.
Ceu e um lugar de completa felicidade e positividade, aonde todas as experiencias negativas se transformaram em positivas, dando a luz uma imensidao. O ceu nao e relativo a nada. Para o ceu voltamos para reestabelecer nossas energias, e entao continuar a jornada, ou ficar la.
O inferno e um lugar de tormento, falta de luz, falta de bondade que experimentamos enquanto vivos, devido a coisas que fizemos ou que fizeram pra nos. Este prossegue alem da vida quando somos mais negativos do que positivos, e isso nao cabe a nos julgar.  
Para finalizar, quero acrescentar que Deus criou Adao e Eva e os colocou no paraizo. La, depois de estarem por algum tempo, eles desobedeceram a Deus. Deus deu a eles o castigo da morte. Assim, logo em seguida comecou o bem e o mal a se proliferar. Antigamente se pensava que o mal seria o primojenito, e o bem o seguinte, tudo isso baseado no assassinato de um dos filhos de adao, Abel por Cain, seu irmao mais velho. E assim o mundo se desenvolveu com o bem e o mal dentro de cada um de nos. Somos os dois, e somente se soubermos viver com outros, poderemos ser mais posotivos do que negativos, e isso cabe no dia a dia de cada um de nos.
Nos veremos mais aqui e depois no Ceu.

Milton Laene Araujo 

The perfect being

Science is knowledge! And as such, it must be taken very seriously.

After I read an article about down syndrome on Wikipedia I discovered that "Individuals with Down syndrome differ considerably in their language and communication skills. It is routine to screen for middle ear problems and hearing loss; low gain hearing aids or other amplification devices can be useful for language learning". ^86] For partial glossectomy (tongue reduction), one researcher found that 1 out of 3 patients "achieved oral competence," with 2 out of 3 showing speech improvement.

Why don't we have all children with down syndrome exposed to partial tongue reduction? If it will better their quality of life. If it may even help with thyroids problem, which of, in consequence brings obesity and all  sort of other problems.

On another related article, it stated that 91–93% of pregnancies in the United Kingdom and Europe with a diagnosis of Down syndrome were terminated.^[73] Data from the National Down Syndrome Cytogenetic Register .
In the United States a number of studies have examined the abortion rate of fetuses with Down syndrome. Three studies estimated the termination rates at 95%, 98%, and 87% respectively.^[73]

Medical ethicist Ronald Green argues that parents have an obligation to avoid 'genetic harm' to their offspring,^[76] and Claire Rayner, then a patron of the Down's Syndrome Association, defended testing and abortion saying "The hard facts are that it is costly in terms of human effort, compassion, energy, and finite resources such as money, to care for individuals with handicaps... People who are not yet parents should ask themselves if they have the right to inflict such burdens on others, however willing they are themselves to take their share of the burden in the beginning."^[77]

 Peter Singer argued that "neither haemophilia nor Down's syndrome is so crippling as to make life not worth living from the inner perspective of the person with the condition. To abort a fetus with one of these disabilities, intending to have another child who will not be disabled, is to treat fetuses as interchangeable or replaceable. If the mother has previously decided to have a certain number of children, say two, then what she is doing, in effect, is rejecting one potential child in favour of another. She could, in defence of her actions, say: the loss of life of the aborted fetus is outweighed by the gain of a better life for the normal child who will be conceived only if the disabled one dies".

This is far too much to digest in a simple page. It seems that science, capable of detecting a fetus with "abnormalities", jumps the gun in selling the tool of "detection" and prevention, forgetting that it needs to fix the abnormality.
For now, science needs to create a device that reverses the entire process of development of the chromosome that carries the abnormality.

Down syndrome disorders are based on having too many copies of the genes located on chromosome 21. In general, this leads to an over expression of the genes. Understanding the genes involved may help to target medical treatment to individuals with Down syndrome. It is estimated that chromosome 21 contains 200 to 250 genes. Recent research has identified a region of the chromosome that contains the main genes responsible for the pathogenesis of Down syndrome, located proximal to 21q22.3. The search for major genes involved in Down syndrome characteristics is normally in the region 21q21–21q22.3

If abortion is ever to be considered legal, from a law point of view, it would bring a pandemonium into people's lives, that can not ever be fixed. To begin, science and abortion will work side by side, eliminating from the face of the earth every fetus that has this or that abnormality. Scientists would become greedy and forget their principal objective, which is prevention of abnormalities by scientific means of resetting the DNA configuration of that particular abnormality.

Science needs to change its gears from corrective maintenance to preventive maintenance. Science now is stagnated in finding how to correct this or that disease, caused by this or that abnormalities. Scientists are more concerned in creating pills. For now science is working side by side with free market or capitalism. 

Science should only be used for the benefit of humans, and not for enrichment of enterprises. 

It is fair to say that scientists are able to manipulate an allele, which  is one of two or more forms of a gene or a genetic locus (generally a group of genes).^[1][2] The form "allel" is also used, an abbreviation of allelomorph. Sometimes, different alleles can result in different observable phenotypic traits, such as different pigmentation. However, many variations at the genetic level result in little or no observable variation.

A number of genetic disorders are caused when an individual inherits two recessive alleles for a single-gene trait. Recessive genetic disorders include Albinism, Cystic Fibrosis, Galactosemia, Phenylketonuria (PKU), and Tay-Sachs Disease. Other disorders are also due to recessive alleles, but because the gene locus is located on the X chromosome, so that males have only one copy (that is, they are hemizygous), they are more frequent in males than in females. Examples include red-green color blindness and Fragile X syndrome.
Other disorders, such as Huntington disease, occur when an individual inherits only one dominant allele.

Science needs to put more effort into modifying the composition of a defected allel. Science needs to get its priority straight.

By now we all - I mean, every individual should have a DNA identification, which would refer to a central global communication for all means related with law enforcement, forensics, and medical. Along with our identification, a daily reading of our blood content would indicate which nutrients are necessary for that day. Science should be more advanced than what it is now. We need good scientists. We need to praise the good ones, who are studying  prevention of abnormalities by manipulating genes, and not those more interested in creating a new pill to make this or that go away.

I am not against progress. I just do not appreciate when progress come in such a high cost for everyone.

By now we should have humans beings immune of any diseases, that can live at least 300 years with only one appearance, perfect weight, and controlled mood, etc. A perfect human being who was perfected to live in this environment by his fellow human, who used science to manipulate genes, creating pure-breads from within hybrids.

Can we get there, finally?

Milton

How to educate a child to become a responsible Teen

Children need discipline, and it must come from parents.

According to  the U.S. Census Bureau in November, 2009, there are approximately 13.7 million single parents in the United States today, and those parents are responsible for raising 21.8 million children (approximately 26% of children under 21 in the U.S. today). It means that 26% of our population will experience life with only one parent, or multiple parents/guardians, such as extended families etc. Either way, it is different from the real expectation of one child with a set of parents to take care of that child.

Most single parents engage in dating games, and the message passed to a child  is that a new person will take the place of a parent. It can get very confusing, specially when grown ups make babies and can not get along to raise them. It become reality to a child that he or she is in fault.

The remaining 74% of children under 21 in the U.S are being raised by a set of parents. Whether this set of parents are the natural parents it is not clear, but with a divorce rate of about 50%, it is fair to say that a large number of children are being raised with one step-parent, and some step-siblings as well.

Again, the message passed to a child is that grown ups can not keep a promise or engage in long term commitment. 

Those, whether single parents or married couples, who end up with the responsibility to raise a child is in charge of cleansing that child's mind of all negativeness from the past.

Parents Do not!
1- Fight in front of the kids
2- Use foul language to express fury in front of the kids
3- Involve kids into your fights

Parents have at least one luggage filled with nonsense they have inherited before they become parents. It is up to each individual to let that luggage interfere with their present. Nonsense is what you get when you are a child and presence your parents fighting, using foul language towards one another, or fight because of something related with timing and activities involving the children.

If you are a parent and if you committed the 3 do not mentioned above, chances are you came from a family that did not obey it either. Your nonsense is spreading and it will never stop. You were somehow a difficult teen who got away with things, and now as a parent you see things differently.

It is your fault! You can blame your parents if you want, but it is your fault because you have children now. If they do not obey your rules, it is because you let them get away before. Your sense of discipline was way out of order. You did not set the rules when your teen was a child, and now it is uncontrollable. He or she will face difficulties on their own. If they are not already in trouble.

It is too late to start setting "the rules of the house". You lost this battle. If you have a teen who is out of control,

Parents Do not!
1- Confront them with new rules
2- Invade their privacy
3- Reason with your teen. He will not hear you.

Parents Do this:
1- Cut part of the allowance. If there was none, give some money for expenses.
2- Encourage some of his friends to come over.
3- Try to be at the same age and get involved with activities.

Do not serve alcohol to minors and do not allow it in your house. If it comes to that, call the police. Do not hit your teen, for you will go to jail. Have lots of food available when friends come over, so they will spend more time at your place, and less time doing something wrong. Be creative and allow them to bring their computer to play games in teams. Have hot dogs and hamburgers for them all. Try to get inside your child's head as a mentor, and not as a pal. When ready, ask for forgiveness for committing the 3 don'ts for parents by doing things that would affect your child's life. Maybe this could change into something better, but do not hold too much expectation. Be sincere, for you had fights while your child was in the back sit of the car. You said nasty things to one another inside the house. You involved your child in some dispute.

You still can win this entire combat. You will make your child a good parent, considering that you THINK you failed in your endeavor. Be honest and take the blames specifically, to help your child to cleanse his mind of negative thoughts. Take the blame for everything and everyone, including your parents because they did not know any better. As long as you take the blame, you can then ask your teen to put a stop in this cycle of fights that affects everyone.

Teach him to respect his partner and treat everyone as co-workers. If we all learn to treat everyone as co-workers we would be happier. Work as a team with your partner - not against him.

If you have a child less than 5, you can not tolerate this child be out of control. Discipline need to be reinforced at this age, and zero tolerance for wrong doings. Rules must be direct. Time to go to bed, time to get up, shower, eat, play, etc. Time for fun with parents is necessary. Do not mix rules - it creates confusion.

Watch Super Nanny to get an idea how to discipline yourself and your child.

LEARN TO SPREAD THESE RULES:

Parents Do not!
1- Fight in front of the kids
2- Use foul language to express fury in front of the kids
3- Involve kids into your fights

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Milton@ibt-eft.com

Dog's Bathroom for the future

A bathroom for Dogs

I live in Lake Worth, Florida. In my town everyone is a pet owner of some sort, but we only see on streets dog owners. My street, Harvard Drive, is located in the north East side of the City, in a neighborhood called College Park. All streets were named over popular American universities. Harvard is a very well manicured road. The road has been paved and new side-walks have replaced the old ones. Most residents have palm trees in their front yard, and the entire street is the closest thing to a paradise. My front yard is a well-taken-care piece of land. It has at least 80 different varieties of plants and a small space with grass. While writing this post, I decided to stop typing, and moved myself out to take a picture of the road for you to see.

The picture on top shows a resident walking his dog. If you look closely into the picture you will see that it is a man who is taking his dog for a walk, or a dog who is taking his man for a walk. The man holds the leach with his left hands while with his right hand he holds a plastic bag with excrement.

The other 2 pictures show Harvard Drive. Zip 33460

How can in this world a man pick up dog excrement and carry with him inside a bag during a walk. How humiliating this could be to humanity. Think for a moment. A man picking up his animal manure right after he (it) disposed it. Not in a million years a man used another man to execute this type of function, which, of, could be perfectly normal if rich people did it in the past with their slaves. Today, January 25th 2012 I took a picture of a pedestrian walking his dog and making sure his dog's poop would not stay wherever it was placed. I admired this, at times, but other times, like today, it truly bothers me. I am not bothered by the fact that many dogs have used my yard. It did killed a few plants, but nothing that could not be replaced or rearranged. My yard is a part of nature and is available to all fauna.

I love watching the squirrels making their nest in my back yard and reproducing in large quantities, while my cats, Ruby and Thomas treat them as family. We also have raccoons wandering around, and on top of a palm tree, there is a large nest of possums, that adds to my animal kingdom each time they reproduce.  My cat Toby was murdered by a momma possums, who decided to bring her babies down from the tree into my yard for a walk. In the middle of the night there was a big commotion that woke us up. After checking that things were OK, we went to bed, to later find Toby dead on my neighbors back yard. Toby was Thomas' brother, and he is missed terribly by all of us. I am sure Toby's curiosity took the best out of him. "Do not mess with mothers. They will die for their offspring's". I always had this in mind.

Getting back to the dog business, after a few minutes of focusing on the barbarity of man kind I came up with the idea of a dog bathroom. At first it was a simple concept, but to make sure it worked I became very creative. I put into practice this concept by creating a spot that attracted most dogs. Once sure that my experiment worked for 4 days, I decided to destroy the "bathroom area" and I brought my front yard back to its originality. Most dog owners do not bring their dogs to my front yard because I have a signal stating that it is not permitted. Once, a while back, I took all the dog poop and placed them on the side-walk, so each dog could smell its own excrement, and find out that it had been removed. It caused some panic in my house, for I was not suppose to do that. But after I stepped on dog doo a few times, I simply placed them on my side-walk to express that I was aware that some owners were not obeying this crazy law of cleaning after your own dog.

He goes how the Dog bathroom works.

Built a poll in an grassed yard. This pool can have different form or shapes, even a design of a fire hydrant on the bottom. The poll has to be in an elevated area... 1 foot above the level of the drain.
Use an area in a park with at least 15 feet in diameter.
Around the poll, plant grass and a few "not spike" plants.
Around the circle, in its out-side, build a drain that would take everything from the grassed area into it, and carry it into the sewage line. See picture for more details.

For my experiment, I used some used pooped newspaper from a pet store, and I mixed it with water, and placed under the grass. Once it attracted a few dogs, everyone wanted to use that place.

Now, for a Park it is necessary to make it a very nice and clean place, where dog owners would meet, talk, knowing that their dogs had used the bathroom for number 2. There will be dogs on line, waiting to use the bathroom...

As you and I know, dogs are trainable animals. They will know that they are in a place where they can use it as a bathroom because there will not be any other place with that urine smell that only them can sense it. Once all dogs stop using people's yard, and start using their own bathroom, they will not be tempted do make mistakes. They will gladly enjoy the visit in a place where other dogs have visited.

When a dog licks you, they do it for your sense of smell and not because they are kissing you. They want to lick anyone who comes from outside mainly because they want to experience the smell of life and to know what is out there. Do not get carried away with kisses, for dogs are there to sense smell, which brings them to a different world.

Once all cities and local parks create dogs bathroom, we will not see mankind picking up his dog-doo.
We will see men cleaning the bathroom by either scoping it into the drain or washing it with water and pressure. Something simple that can be done every half an hour.

To attract more dogs, spray a can of dog smell/urine into the poll along with other indications that this is the place.

It can be build in every street. Just choose a place where to create it, and when it works, start the building permits to make it safer for usage. But first try with the simple way, by making a location where dogs meet, and later build the drainage, etc.

Good walk - this time to take your dog to the right place. As far as pee is concerned... it is just water for the plants, when done accidentally.

Milton

Gay issues 2011 - By Milton Laene Araujo

About life in general By Milton L. Araujo: Gay issues 2011 - By Milton Laene Araujo

Gay Issues: Passive or Active?

Homosexuality in men is something that has not been studied completely by anyone. What we know is what people say or do.

In the gay community, "passive" is a word used to describe a man who is the "recipient" of the penis during anal intercourse. Sometimes passive is also applied to the one who takes the other's penis into his mouth (receives it inside him) during oral sex. This is opposed to a person who is "active" which means they are the ""inserter" during anal intercourse and the "inserter" during oral sex. Someone who enjoys both giving and receiving during anal intercourse or oral sex would be considered "versatile". Often the term "versatile" is applied only to anal intercourse.

Someone who is "submissive" is often understood to be one who submits to another person's desires, whether in a sexual way or just generally.

"Submissive" is unlike "passive" in that "submissive" does not have to have an opposite. In gay sex, if there is a passive (recipient) person, then there must be an active person. Likewise in BDSM, if there is a submissive partner, there must also be a dominant partner because the submissive partner conforms to the desires of the dominant party. Most people, most of the time, are neither submissive nor dominant in their dealings with others, whether sexual or otherwise. They are cooperative. What we call "vanilla" sex is just cooperative sex, regardless of who is active and who is passive.

There is good reason from what gay men say and do to believe that the passive (recipient) person in gay sex often feels or imagines himself to be submissive and derives sexual pleasure from that feeling or imagination. Likewise, the active person often feels or imagines himself to be dominant and derives sexual pleasure from that.

The bottom line is. The root for all this terms comes from the person's background. Most Latin men see themselves as active because it is more manly than being passive. So, although they will experience and eventually will enjoy being passive, they will assume the identity of being active because it sounds better and it makes them feel as if the are the man in that relationship. This is too passe.

American gay man are more versatile, and in my view, they are more advanced in this sense. They have no hang ups about what they are or like. While Latin men think that having sex with a man and being active means that they are not all the way homosexual. Macho man in reality is a man who is afraid of his own sexuality. Most macho behave differently when drunk, and it says a lot about them.

In my experience, gay guys who defend the idea of being active are truly afraid of complete sexual experiences and will eventually get into marriage with the opposite sex to later find out that they made a mistake. A man who claims to be active has nothing to do with me, as a man who claims to be passive. Men should be versatile in all senses, if they claim to be gay. I do not believe in bisexuality, for it only exist for those who claimed to be active, and later decided to get married, and in order to function in the society they go after guys to have their nightly encounters. In bed everything can be different, and they may explore things they will feel ashamed of while living the other life. This is simply a mental unbalance.

There will be a day when men will have sex with woman for procreation, and not for recreation, and eventually they will explore all sides of sexual pleasure, for it doesn't require drugs and brings one to climax.

A woman - to keep a man in bed must explore all avenues, and eventually try to be active with her partner with objects etc, to make that relationship more complete. But while there is a ta bu, this experience is only practiced by a few couples. What i mean is: While having sex with  a woman, let her touch you in places you have never been touched before, and bring you pleasure where you never imagine. This is perfectly normal, and should not go away from the bedroom. This way men will feel more complete and lose desire to go in search of trouble outside of their relationship.

This is all for now.

Check on my other gays issues - by clicking on the right side of this site.

Milton