Suicide is not the answer, by Milton Laene Araujo

SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER!

I am not going to start with statistics, or other information about why and how people commit suicide. People go through hardships in life, and if you think about it, life is not easy in any aspect.

You cost a pretty penny to be born – You are born wet and naked. As you saw the light of the day for the first time, your lungs inhaled air and you cried. Your first cry brought joy to everyone around you, especially to your caretakers. For five years of your life you have someone around. They are watching you, feeding and providing comfort to you as much as they have for themselves, if not more.

You think, therefore you are!

Sooner than expected you are a being with a mind of your own. As soon as you think, you feel the reality of your existence in this space and time. You think about sleeping time, playing time, studying time. You learn some likes and dislikes of your life, and you think about them too. You discover that you want to be loved.

Time flies. You question about your existence. You see yourself in comparison with others. Life has not been as good for you as it has been for others around you. Groups are formed. A complete sense of “not belonging” takes over your existence. You become rebellious at home. You disobey your parents, teachers, and eventually the law. You are controllable.

Sex comes into the picture!

Now you experience sex. You have faced two roads diverging. Both will take you into a path of uncertainty, and bring you back into the same path you had before.  I will clarify this by stating that, before you have sex for the first time, you were more controllable. Yes, you were a teenager, and your hormones were unbalanced, but you were not the first teenager that ever existed, and your parents know well that this age group is the hardest one to deal with. It comes with the package. The body is changing both physically and mentally. At this time you have a conscious and a personality to develop. If you chose to develop your conscious side, the road would not diverge. You would have listened to your parents, and do as told. But once you had sex, you automatically chose to develop your personality side, the side that wants you to fit in at all cost into the popular group of friends, you will travel into the path of uncertainty, created by you in cahoots with your group. Only among your pears you feel social adequacy. It is missing home adequacy.

Sex among teens can be influenced by peer pressure, drugs, alcohol, pot, parties, etc. The path of uncertainty starts with an infatuation. At this time, the entire consciousness has been shut off. Let me remind you that personality develops as consciousness shrinks. They are the opposite. You can not have both at full array. As a personality person, you start to take care of your body physically, and want to show it off, as if this is the most gorgeous thing you will ever have, and it will remain the same forever. See here that a touch with reality has vanished, and this is why this path is dark. Jealousy comes into play immediately after sex. Battles are fought between girls for one guy who plays with both at the same time. Usually no one blames the guy. Other battles are fought among peers who feel alienated or undesirable. Personality people want attention. They crave for admiration and sell themselves to satisfy a lust that only sex will remediate.

Parents lose control of their teens!

Once sex got into the picture, school became secondary, new friends are on the horizon, drugs are at play and personality people are together socializing while playing the blame game. Priorities have been changed, and parents have not a clue how to modify it. Parents forgot that their children copy what they see outside when they miss it inside their home.

Most people use their personality phase for about fifteen years of their existence, and then shift into consciousness for the remaining of their lives. It is very important to have a good personality because it attracts others into your realm of existence, as it is very important to be an individual. When you balance both, you live a full life with love for others and a sense respect for their individuality. It is not as important to be important, as it is important to be good to others. 

When teens are getting in trouble, parents need to intervene immediately. But remember. You are to be blamed! Start with apologizing for not being there when it started, and give the teen a chance to explain how it all begun. Embrace your child’s problem as yours and fight with your child to overcome. Not against your child. It doesn’t mean picking up a fight with others either. It means to find out what personality phase your child is experiencing. Has drugs been involved, has sex been a part of it? It is infatuation?

Stay closer to your teen and monitor every friend and conversation. This is your obligation. Check phone, text messages, school bag, etc. to find out what little person you are being responsible for. Until your child is 18 you have the obligation to educate, discipline, control and participate. This is a mission you have with life. Ask for help, find help.

One to Blame

Everyone has something or someone to blame for their problems in life. We start with our parents and the way they educated us. Either we come from a broken home, or a dysfunctional family, or divorced parents, or from an orphanage, we always will hang on something to justify our choices in life, and therefore blame it for. When we can not do it, others will do it for us. It is very convenient to find others to blame. It is time to stop this cycle. It is old and passé.

Now you are going to have a baby!

You are only a teen! What to do? The baby is your brother’s baby. The baby has no father. The father doesn’t want the baby. Oh Gosh! You have a problem in your hands. What to do? For starters, you have a home. You have parents and you have a family that you abandoned. You feel all alone. Remember that you abandoned them but they do not you. They hate your actions because of their love for you. If they truly dislike you, they would not care and you would not be worried about them. Now the damage has been made, and it is time to clean up the mess. Take responsibility and share with your guardians your problem. Be honest, and you will be set free of this worry. Reveal what is happening and for one time face life as it is, and not as you have created in your head. To have a baby while teen is not a big deal. It happens every day people have sexual intercourse without protection. The problem will be after birth. Are you going to create a person the way you were created? Are you going to rear with discipline? What are you going to do? Well, you are faced with the same challenges expressed in the beginning of this post. The solution is to talk with an adult. The gift of life is never a problem.

Now you are hooked on drugs!

Wow, it must be terrible, for you need money to buy it and you may not have. At least you will not overdose. But kidding aside, drugs are a drag. The high once acquired will never return, but the search for the same high will remain. Free base is not free, for it can cost you a house, family, friends and even yourself. Drugs are depressant, and sooner or later you will be depressed. Only another shot will put you back in track, or so you think, and this way you are killing yourself one day at a time, and leaving traces of disagreements and unhappiness among everyone you touch. Most addicts commit crimes. The end is in a cell or on rehabilitation facilities. Drug is not a solution, but it is there and you need to learn to live with it, and not be a part of it. Most addicts have a family. They come from some place; they were somebody else one time. Drugs changed them, and we need to accept the fact that this force was greater than his force to resist. We need to extend a hand and offer help. In other words, addiction is bad, but it can be cured only with love and care.

Love Triangle!

If involved in a love triangle, get out! I know you can not hear me, but this is the worse love situation a human being can get exposed to. It always has bad ramifications. Not long ago, only guys used to go after girls for sex, but nowadays, it is the opposite. Girls will do whatever they can to have sex with guys. There are girls who are popular in school because they use boy’s restrooms to give anyone who is interested a blow job. You can not imagine how creative teens are nowadays. They are aggressive towards sex, and when infatuated, no one can change it. They will have sex at all cost. In most love triangle, one guy usually plays with two girls mind until a fight occurs between the girls, who for stupid reason, hate one another and compete for the same guy. It has to do with sex. Usually, in a love triangle parties involved are not aware that they are not the only ones, but when they know about the third person, they enjoy the secrecy and practicing sex with more intensity. Secrecy can make sex very intense, therefore partners continue in a love triangle for as long as it is not known by the third party. Once it comes out, the girls are the ones to suffer. Do not ask me why, but in most love triangle where two girls fought for one guy, they never blamed the guy. Yet, he was the main reason why they were in that place to begin with. Love triangle usually happens when couples decide to try something else, and end up agreeing in having a threesome, but later, one party can not disconnect from the other. While it is a secret, love making takes its toll and both party feel in love. Off course, they are in love with their lives in that present moment, while sex is good and the conversation is light. But not in love enough to the point of being honest and come clean. An affair with bad consequences is about to happen. Everyone will be hurt. Love triangle can and has ended in tragedy. If you are involved in a love Triangle, just remember that you are up to deception. Chances are you a more personality person than consciousness person, and you let your personality take over your life, making it impossible to love with full array of human emotions. Your love is not real. It feels real, but it is an obsession. It is a drug and you are addicted to it. You become blind and the only remedy is to remove this person from your system. True love comes with responsibility. It comes with truthfulness of who you are in relation to the person you love. It means that you are honest and sincere about your feelings. You respect the other being as you want to be respected. This is love. The rest is obsession, confusion, lust, and lack of love. My advice is: Do not be cruel. Do not through it out there for everyone to talk about. Be discrete, end the relationship and relate where you are with your partner. Be honest and ask for help in find out if what you really feel is love or if it is something else. I know it is something else, but you need to have this doubt to start the process of seeing it more clearly. Once it is not a secret, you have a choice or a choice will be presented to you. If you slept with your brother’s wife, it also can be fixed. It took two to do it, and off course, alcohol and whatever was involved. Again, it is something that makes who you are, and you can not ignore the fact that others depend upon you, therefore you need to be clean, and face the consequences. We are all humans and we all make mistakes. No mistake is greater enough to prevent a bigger force to dissipate.

In this life you have a choice!

It is easy for me to say that a person who contemplates suicide has been placed in a predicament. However, it is not easy for me to distinguish whether this predicament is mental or physical. Physical is easier to fix, for it involves money, betrayal, shame, sickness in the family, lost of a loved one or a child, or lost of something as big as a career, status, fame etc. Mental, on the other hand is not easy to fix, for it involves lack of desire to live, medical depression and social inadequacy.

Our brain is responsible for our moods. When you are happy, you feel and act happy and when you are sad we feel and act sad. There are many factors that can make you sad, but usually there are more factors that make you happy. For example: you have a life and you can create great things for others while you are here. You can have a family of our own, you can enjoy a warm bath, you can drive, etc. You are free to do many things. If your brain only brings sad thoughts, you need to see a doctor, who will prescribe a small dosage of medication to your brain that would balance chemically your brain fluids and present you with a moderate mood. When depressed, you lose your physical desire to move. Depression alone can make you have suicidal thoughts, but you can conquer it by taking proper medication. First and foremost, tell a doctor or a suicidal hotline how you feel, and if it is a medical depression, you can be treated. Remember that not all brains can produce serotonin in normal quantity for one to function and face reality with eyes wide open. Take your medication and take one day at a time.

Our body responds to our mood, therefore one thing is connected to the other, except that a depression caused because you lost a child or your money is normal to a certain extent. Our brain will not produce a chemical that makes you happy when you are going through sorrows. It would make you crazy if it produced stamina when you need to be calm and in touch with reality. If you were exposed to faith when you were a child, you would overcome the death of a loved one with less trouble. You would understand that your life is precious and that you are protected by many laws that prevent others of causing you harm, to the point where you walk on streets knowing that no one will shoot you just because. You have a certainty of security, but you can not stop others of making their choices, as no one can stop you of making yours. Lives are important, and while you are contemplating suicide, remember that many people will be affected if you go through with it. For starters, they will question for generations why such and such person committed suicide? What could I have done to prevent it? Why we did not see it? Who is going to marry his children, knowing that they may have tendencies to do the same?  Whose fault was it? Was it his mother or his Estranged father? What took him to actually do it? Was it mental? …and the list goes on for many years to come. Then, families will suffer, separate, change sides and start a war among them with the blame game. I do not think it is worth it. To take one’s life for a physical reason is a very selfish way of departure. It is to let the others deal with the situation, as long as you leave some money. This is selfish because you are here to live a life and set examples to others to do the same. You are here to face your problems and resolve them. Cut your losses and live in poverty, but live with dignity. It is even more selfish when one contemplates murder and suicide. It means complete disconnection with others, lack of empathy and lack of divinity. It means that this human being has never felt empathy for anyone. This is not physical.

To summarize, suicide is not the answer because you are a million pieces. Your family gave you love from the first moment you were born. You have others who depend on you. You are loved by many people and your life is very important for the country, which would place in jail anyone who would harm you. You are important for everyone you have been in touch with, and if you were not here, many people’s life will take different turns because of you, who could guide, or direct or even be a friend when they needed you the most. Your departure will cause an effect greater than your imagination can reflect. It will affect everyone’s life, from the person who hears the news to the person who participates in your life. It will be a tragedy for all human beings to know that together no one could prevent it. Your life will have an end only for you. Others will suffer and be tempered for their entire life.

From the moment you thought about suicide, you realized that you are tired or upset or disgusted with life. It is a normal feeling, for no one is happy and dandy all life. This is the reason we have one day after the other. Every day is a new beginning. If life was a parallel with no days and no nights, and time would not pass, then it would be terrible, but life is not this way. Life is taking one day at a time. Life is hard and costly, but we can manage to exist. We make friends to help us in desperate times. You have helped many people in your life even not knowing them. Face the music! Dance. But please, do not end your life short.

I have heard many things about people that take their own lives.

1-     They are insane

2-     They went bankrupt

3-     They lost something

Others use a different approach and say:

1-     They worth more dead than alive

2-     They were not prepared for this or for that

3-     They could not surpass depression

It doesn’t matter what is bothering you, it will come to pass. We have one day after the other with new opportunities. Whatever the problem is, for one minute let me help you. I will listen to you and I will help you to find a solution. I just want to be your eyes and ears for one minute to comprehend what is taking you to this ultimatum sacrifice.

Write to me: Milton@ibt-eft.com and as a subject line write life

FUTURES TRADING how to play safely?

How to participate with Futures Market – to make some $ or lose it all

The Future Market is regulated by the NFA National Future Association and by the FTC, Futures Trading Commission.

In order to become a Future Broker one needs to pass the series 3 Exam. Once passed with a 70% one becomes an Associated Person, or a Broker.

If you intend to become an Associated Person, bellow three articles written to help you with your endeavor. They are free.

1-     http://miltonlaenearaujo.blogspot.com/2011/10/series-3-exam-tips-commodity-broker-by.html

2-     http://miltonlaenearaujo.blogspot.com/2011/11/series-3-exam-commodity-broker-manual.html

3-     http://miltonlaenearaujo.blogspot.com/2011/01/futures-trading-theory.html

If you intend to invest in the Option Future Markets, you are a speculator. Bellow a few tips to help you to understand this market and take the risk.

Futures do not trade in shares like stocks. They trade in contracts. Each futures contract has a standard size that has been set by the futures exchange it trades on. For example, the contract size for gold futures is 100 ounces. That means when you are buying 1 contract of gold, you are really controlling 100 ounces of gold. If the price of gold moves $1 higher, that will affect the position by $100($1 x 100 ounces). You need to check each commodity or futures contract since most of them are different.

1-     The Future Markets contract you can purchase online or over the phone. It usually cost $1000 per contract.

2-     One contract gives the purchaser a right to participate in the market for the duration of the contract. One contract for Options usually is sold for a period of 90 days, and the owner needs to get rid of it anytime before expiration.

3-     A contract can be in your hands for one day, one hour, one month… but the longer you hold it, lesser will be the value of it. Sometimes you may not be able to sell it for the price you purchased it.

4-     Every contract gives the purchaser the option of either sell it, take deliver of the merchandise, however, a speculator doesn’t take deliver of it. You will not invest in sugar to receive sugar in your home, unless you are a manufacturer or a food processor that need this type of commodity.

5-     To better understand this process, you need to see some basics. Check my text http://miltonlaenearaujo.blogspot.com/2011/01/futures-trading-theory.html

6-     You can go either long (buy) or short (sell) in a future contract.

7-     Your associated person will help you to decide what commodity to enter the market with.

8-     If you entered the market as a long, you own that contract and have to sell it sometime in the future. Let’s say you purchase a contract for gold, you went long on gold, therefore, you like the price of gold to go up, and so you can sell it and make money.

9-     When you purchase a contract, you are in control of the size of the contract, and you will either get rid of it or take deliver of the entire contract.

10- If you entered the market as a short, you can only get out of the market by purchasing a contract for the same commodity, same size in the future, therefore you like the price of that commodity to go down. You want to buy low and sell high.

OPTION CONTRACT

Example 1: We are in the end of the winter, and you have an idea that gasoline prices will go up during the summer because more people are traveling. You call your associated person and tell him that you would like to invest in gasoline. He will present you with a Future Option contract that will cost you $1,000 and allow you to control the entire size of the contract of gasoline which is 42,000 gallons. You then purchase 5 contracts and wire him $5,000

You are now in control of 5 X 42,000 gallons. You went long on Gasoline, and you need to sell this contract whenever prices go up a little, for it will give you profit.

Now, we need to find out what was the price per gallon when you purchased it. Because it was winter, the price was $1.50 per gallon. So your contract will say

Option LONG 5 RB @ 1.50  - Date and time will be stamped. If for some reason the price of gasoline goes down, nothing will happen to you, for your contract has 90 days to expire, and prices can oscillate during the period of the contract, but it can not go down too much, or your contract will lose its value, for Option is a decreasing asset. It has incorporated timing and other things that allow you to invest only partial price of the entire contract and the right to control the entire contract. and participate in the market. Option is a type of investment that with a little money you have the option of participating in the market and even make money if your price forecasting is in the same direction you anticipated.

Now, your broker is watching the market, meaning, he is watching all commodity prices every time. You do not have to do it, and that is why you pay commission to your broker when you enter a contract, but never when you get out of your contract. Usually the commission is around $100 to $150 per contract.

Let’s say, you saw while watching Bloomberg TV that prices for gasoline went up due to a mishap with one refinery, or something unexpected. You see that prices for gasoline are now $1.75 per gallon. You purchased it while it was 1.50 and the increase was 25 cents. You called your Broker to learn that he had sent your contract to the floor – Yes, to New York Mercantile Exchange to see what price was it going. He learned that NYMEX would buy it back from you today for a price of $1.57 per gallon. Remember, they are buying and they want to buy it low and sell it high, as anyone else.

You then, get mad with your broker because he said that if prices go up you would make money, and now it did 25 cents higher per gallon. The price on TV is for buying it now, in case you want more, but not for selling because you are investing in an option, and it has 90 days…and each passing day it loses some value due to many things that no one can truly foresee it.

You then sell your contract – You have to sale it when you go long, for it is the only way to get out of the market. You sold 5 contracts and your profit is 7 cents per gallon. & cents times 42000 galloons will be what you will take home.

This is to inform you that when purchasing Options the price needs to go the direction you predicted, as soon as possible and as much as possible, so you can make a fraction of that increase, and take advantage of that fraction multiplied by your entire size of each contract. It is a good investment!

To better understand this check this site later…

http://www.netplaces.com/investing/alternative-investments-for-risk-lovers/trading-futures.htm

FUTURE CONTRACT

Example 2 – The same situation as example 1, except that you make more money because you buy for $1.50 and sell it at $1.75 without any loss what-so-ever, except charges that are minimum. You need to invest as much as you want, (there is a minimum for each contract) for it will be finished in the end of each day. It is a day contract, and you can invest 5.000 on gasoline and play one day… you may lose one day and win another and this way you go on. Your broker will ask for an amount to ensure that you are willing to take the risk. If prices go up and you have a long your broker will get you out in that minute with your authorization…. It is a process where you need to have a broker who takes care of your interest.  You wither make money or pay in the end of the day… or anytime you offset.. your broker will decide when to get out, for he may be afraid that your money will not survive and he doesn’t want to call you to deposit more money to meet the loss.

TRUE FACTS

You do not need to be in front of your computer checking prices. This is the job of your broker. Every day in your account will be taken money or deposited money from the market, in accordance with when you offset your contract. You open an account with your broker and hew will advise how much to invest on each commodity. It is the job of the broker to be familiar with what happens in the world, and predict what can go up or down and when.

A Good broker will contact you every day to advise what to do. You do not have to participate every day, but your broker wants you to participate, for he makes a small (disclosed fee) every time you enter, and you can enter many times per day. Prices can go up at 10 AM and go down and 11AM. and go up again… for prices are influenced also by the number of speculators interested in that particular commodity. Your broker needs to be watching that screen.

Sometimes brokers purchase different commodity contracts for one client, and make money here and lose it there, but always talking with the client when to buy and when to sell and what to buy and what to sell. A broker only gets free discrimination when he has a client for over 2 years. At this point the Client can give a Power of Attorney for the broker to do as he pleases.

I highly recommend that people invest in the Market, be it stock or commodity market, or any other market. The more speculators we have, more solidity for prices.

I think that it works like this: The market is world wide, and it keeps track of supply and demand of all products we produce and consume. People use the Market to sell their goods and to buy their goods, even for the future. Contracts are created, and speculators bid on existing contracts expecting prices to change dramatically for them to collect. However, sellers and buyers are in a contract, and the “market” already has calculated prices that are in tandem with each product and it’s fall and rise. The market makes it possible to not have a tremendous price increase or down fall, even if that product went into constraint.

What to WATCH!!!?? When using a broker.

1-     Do not send more money just because another voice appeared on the phone telling you that he is a professional and will be taking care of your account. In reality, the person who opened your account should be the only one to actually control it for you, and not another member of the firm.

2-     Ask your broker to send back your profits on a regular basis until you recovered what you have invested.

3-     If your broker is good, he will start with your money and later play only with market money.

4-     Check the background of the firm you are about to invest on, and also check the background of the broker. See if there are any irregularities with NFA or CFTC, and it can be found by clicking on www.nfa.com under broker. Type last name and see what appears.

5-     Do not trust anyone with your money, therefore play safely.

Milton Laene Araujo

Sinto Muito, Te Amo, Me Perdoe, Sou Grato

Com apenas quatro frases repetidas diariamente voce pode cancelar todas as energias negativas que estao ao seu redor, e tambem aquelas que estao por vir em sua vida...

Sinto muito... e um forma de se convencer de que voce sente muito pelo poder de suas palavras e a forma qual elas podem afetar negativamente outras pessoas. E uma forma de nos sentirmos responsaveis por parte daquilo que causamos, pois um so nao causa nada.

Eu te amo...voce e um irmao, um ser humano qual repartimos o mundo, e eu nao posso sobreviver sozinho

Me perdoe... Pois nem sempre sabemos o que causamos, mas o que te causei com certeza podera me trazer beneficios ou aprendizagens, e tra-ta se do processo de uma vida.

Sou Grato... por ter tido esta oportunidde de aprender, de conviver, mesmo que tenham sido ruim no comeco, algo de bom vira desta experiencia....

SINTO MUITO EU TE AMO ME PERDOE SOU GRATO....deve estar em seu pensamento todos os momentos, e aproveite todas as oportunidades que voce tem de dizer pra voce mesmo estas palavras. Escreva elas em todos os locais, seja no espelho, na cozinha, na sala e pratique estas palavras em sua vida. Isso nao e pra ser dito as pessoas, mas ao seu proprio ser.

Voce e a unica pessoa que pode sofrer com as injusticas dos outros, com a falta de calma, e se voce tiver em sua mente estas palavras voce podera entao se proteger pelo fato de estar ali presente enquanto aconteceu.

Veja por exemplo...se voce tiver em um bar e uma briga acontece... Voce sente muito em estar la na hora H, porem voce esta grato de poder passar pela experiencia, que podera entao ajuda-lo no futuro, e voce pede perdao por nao ter feito mais, ou por ter feito muito, e voce ama os involvidos como amamos um proximo, e entao agradeca novamente por nao ter sido de uma outra forma.

Uma trajedia Grega acontece: "Que pena que foi assim, pois se fosse de uma outra forma isso seria assim e assado".

Logo, voce se sentira parte daquilo mas de uma forma mais leve. Voce aceitaria o fato de que Deus esta lhe protegendo e lhe guiando, enquanto voce dirige pra onde quizer.

Somos uma arvore! Temos o tronco que e a nossa familia, e criamos galhos, que sao os caminhos. Num so memento estamos criando varios galhos. Um se chama relacionamento, outro se chama amor, outro se chama crueldade, outro se chama barbaridades, outro se chama caridade e assim por diante. Cada opcao faz com que a arvore crie novos ramos, e alguns sao interrompidos, cortados, enquanto outros crescem, mas NOS como seres humanos, somos uma arvore e cada decisao criara novos ramos, novos caminhos, e jamais poderemos permanecer num so caminho como um eucalipto em sua infancia... Acabaremos de uma forma ou de outra criando galhos, e o tronco mantera os galhos, ou seja, sua alma, sua formacao familiar.

Nossa arvore e movel, e pode causar problemas com outras arvores, e podera sofrer com o tempo. Jamais saberemos qual galho deveria ser mais grosso ou mais fino, pois cada dia temos a opcao de viver ou de morrer.
Temos que aprender a nos renovar, a nos desfazer de coisas velhas e passadas e de reconstruir. As estacoes do ano nos afetam diferentemente da forma qual afetam as arvores,  que perdem as folhas mas nunca os galhos, mas outras estacoes nos afetam, como a falta disso ou o escesso daquilo. Tudo faz com que a nossa arvore da vida tenha mais longevidade, ou menos.

Para iniciar 2013 procure entao se limpar das energias negativas atravez do perdao. Perdoe outros, pois voce nao quer voltar a viver, se caso ha reincarnacao, e em seu caminho, entao, encontrar a mesma pessoa pra entao desfazer algo cruel que voce tenha feito, ou algo que possa ter se escalado.

Se voce nao acredita num ser criador de todas as coisas, voce com certeza voltara a viver nesta terra de injusticas muito mais vezes, ate voce entao entender que existe sim um criador que lhe ama, que lhe observa todos os dias e que vive as suas experiencias.

Deus ama cada ser humano imensamente, e nos momentos tristes, Deus envia anjos (em forma de amigos, frases, texto, e ate em forma pessoal) para lhe mostrar o caminho a seguir. Mas voce precisa aprender a se entregar a Deus e pedir que tome seus problemas...e a sua carga sera menor, suas angustias desaparecerao e voce entao ira ver que Deus tem planos para cada um.

Sei que voce perdeu um ser querido, um pai, um filho, e nao esta conformado da forma que Deus leva o mundo. Voce o critica e ate perde a fe que Ele exista. Mas saiba que o livre arbitrio vem com responsabilidades. Deus nao pode interferir em todas as causas criadas pelo homem no mundo, pois o mundo pode ser perfeito, mas o homem tambem deve ser perfeito...e isso e impossivel, pois senao estariamos vivendo numa cidade chamada Utopia.

Existe seres com tempo limitado, que aparecem em nossas vidas por um determinado periodo e logo se afastam... uns seguem seu destino e outros morrem. Uns de morte morrida e outros de morte matada. Qualquer que seja o final, Deus estara sempre presente para confortar a todos. Basta pedir.

Se voce perdeu uma crianca por morte, entenda que Deus tem outros planos para esta alma, e que a sua (os que sobraram) temporada de crescimento e de aprendizado foi interrompida com aquele ser, mas voce entao podera usar este sentimento para acalmar outros que irao passar pelo mesmo. Se voce tiver Deus em si de uma forma intima, voce entao nao se questionara, mas voce entao aceitara os planos Dele. Se voce hoje ver um milagre, entenda que muitas pessoas irao dizer que foi feito por outro ser, e nao Deus, e isso acabaria em morte.  Se voce precisa ver um milagre para acreditar em Deus, voce nao ira ver nunca, pois Deus nao vai se manifestar de forma material somente para satisfazer a curiosidade de muitos, sabendo que no intimo isso somente vai trazer discordias e falso testemunhos. Ja se voce tem Deus em voce, a manifestacao material se torna desnecessaria, e os milagres serao vistos em cada dia, em cada flor, em cada fruta, em cada ser, em cada celula que se reproduz.

Os que morrem de morte matada, tiveram sua jornada interrompida, porem estao sendo consolados e estao felizes por estarem ao lado de Deus, pois se sentem mal em ter deixado a vida assim tao repetinamente sem se despedir. Deus entao lhe consolara, e lhe mostrara que livre arbitrio vem com responsabilidades, e que muitos abusam isso, e que somente o homem pode mudar.

Veja a sua vida como uma passagem! Um aprendizado! E entenda que Deus tem planos para voce e para o mundo. Ninguem e nada vai mudar isso! Aceite as injusticas como algo ruim, e quando tiver ao seu alcance, lute contra. Nao compre brigas dos outros, nao critique nem julgue. Nao cabe a voce observar os defeito dos outros. Se voce tiver Deus com voce, voce logo saberia que ninguem e perfeito nesta terra, e por isso etamos aqui. Para que criticar uma imperfeicaozinha de alguem, se voce esconde as suas? Como disse antes, NINGUEM e perfeito, e se um ou outro grupo de pessoas criticam um grupo de pessoas por viverem a vida diferentemente do seu padrao, ou do padrao de seu grupo, voce deve aceitar esta imperfeicao, pois talvez nao seja assim tao imperfeita para Deus, que tem planos para o mudo inteiro.

Hoje temos varios caminhos de chagar a Deus, e chamamos isso de religiao. Siga a sua e haja em bondade com os outros que nao seguem a sua. Voce nao sabe nada sobre os planos de Deus para cada individuo, pois cada um de nos tem um aprendizado diferente a seguir. Deus se preocupa com cada ser, e quando um se desvia, Deus poe seus anjos para guiar pro caminho correto sem afetar o livre arbitrio, mas com demonstracoes, com sonhos, com o que quer que seja. Tenha fe e acredite, e repita todos os dias em sua mente...sinto muito, te amo, sou grato e me perdoe...Isso lhe afastara situacoes que ficariam em sua mente, causando energia negativa...e lhe devolvera o dia a dia sem preocupacoes.

Um abraco
Milton L Araujo

Gay Marriage

Get a grip of yourself  2011 - Gay Marriage: Gays Issues – Gay Marriage by Milton Laene Araujo Marriage is a union between a male and a female. This union consists of whatever cul...

Cheating

Cheating is lack of love!

Love is the desire to grow spiritually with someone.  Lack is the absence of completeness. Cheating is the consequence of both:  Lack of Love!

To begin, I want to explain what spirituality is. We all have a soul, which is the only part of our being that doesn't die when we physically die. Our soul evolves, for it is a particle of our creator. Imagine for a moment that God with His magnitude wanted to experience Himself. He then placed a particle of Self into the air, at a distance where he could experiment what that particle would do in his realm. We as human are this particle, and we have freedom to do whatever we want in this life. We can be whatever we want, and God is experiencing Himself through us. There are moments when we are connected to our source, as there are moments when we are connected to an opposite force. God is goodness, forgiveness, love, and compassion. The opposite force is simply the lack of it. It is all God, for God is it all, however, our soul goes through good and bad, small and large, etc, etc, in order to evolve.

When we are in contact with our source, we evolve as souls. When we lack this connection, we simply exist. No one can evolve without a relationship, for in this relative world, a point A, "the force", and a point B, "us" can only experiment what is bad when we have an idea of what is good. When we relate with more people, or even the worst media, we are in contact with other people's experiences, and live both concepts of good and bad. Cheater is just a word used to describe a liar.

As humans we can only grow when we are able to share with another being our true self. When one lies to a loved one, the connection with the main source is interrupted. No goodness come out

CHEATING happens when couples lose their connection, therefore, they can not grow spiritually. They go after a lustful desire, and end up cheating. However, this is not the end of the world. EVERYONE has fantasies and if an opportunity appears, EVERYONE is capable of taking advantage of it. For this reason, if we create an idea or a concept, a different idea will emerge. For example: If we decide that we are not going to tolerate cheating. Just by confirming this idea, we will, then be cheated upon in real life and be put to test.

Love is complete when we are connected with our creator, and when we are honest at all times. Cheating is lack of love, for no one can grow spiritually when living in lies.

If a loved one has cheated on you, read bellow and think.

Maybe it is the first time it happened. Maybe it happens many times. Either way, think about your love. Is it unconditional, that you accept your life partner with his faults? Think about your faults. Are you capable of cheating? Have you ever done the same? Have you done such a thing to anyone else?
If you are not so perfect, why are you looking for perfection on others? Can you love an imperfect human being?  What do you want from this relationship? Can you just end it? Do you have a point to prove? If so, maybe this led to whatever happened.

What to do?

Do not leave immediately. Learn to have a heart to heart conversation, where all values are placed on the table. Do not instigate, do not ask for the truth, for it is already written in his/hers' face that it happened, but have the grace to understand that your lover is a human being capable of such thing as you are, given the right opportunity. We are all led into temptations, unless we ask to be led the other way. If your lover is capable of being truthful with you about desires, etc, then you have a good thing going, for growth comes from accepting and showing how we feel while doing so If your partner refuses to be himself completely with you, and pretend it never happened, you then need to go away.

A cheater is always a cheater. Yes, because a cheater is a liar and everyone lies, however, a cheater can stop cheating when he learns to love and grow. We only love who truly loves us, and to truthfully love anyone it is necessary to love them completely. When they feel loved, they start loving themselves and learn to love back.

Sex is not all there is in a relationship. People need to separate sex and relationship, for sex is a small particle in the entire realm of a relationship.

Do not ever confront the third party - It is not your business to care what others do - Concentrate on your partner and decide whether you can live with this. If you can, move on, but if you can not, move out.

To finalize - If you are a victim of a cheater, you are in fault, for your ability to gain people's trust is very low. Either you behave above people's expectations, which creates a barrier for them to see you as an equal or you behave far away from what attracts people to be honest with you. Lovers are friends and they are important in each other lives.  If your lover needs another person to confide his (secrets), he is not your lover! If your lover accuses you of cheating, he is in fault, or has it in mind. Always leave the line of communication open for this type of discussion. If your life partner is not your friend, he is not your lover, and he will not love you with full array of humane emotions. There will be not much growth.

In Summary - God is goodness and goodness is love, and anything else is lack of it. When we are connected with our force, we are honest, truthful and we have goodness in our hearts. When we are disconnected we act disoriented. Spiritual growth only happens when two people are connected here and with the force. To be connected here one needs to be one - When one lies he becomes more than one - hard to keep up -
Hugs

Milton@ibt-eft.com

O Gatinho Morto.

Get a grip of yourself - by Milton L. Araujo: O Gatinho Morto.: O Gatinho Morto

Eu não tive outra alternativa, senão matar o gato. Eu estava com 10 anos na época e já sabia decifrar o certo do er...

The Massacre in Aurora, Colorado - Milton Laene Ar...

Get a grip of yourself - by Milton L. Araujo: The Massacre in Aurora, Colorado - Milton Laene Ar...: The Massacre in Aurora , Colorado -   And the guy who did it. – Colorado – July 2012 It is so sad what took place! It is even sadder...

The Massacre in Aurora, Colorado - Milton Laene Araujo

The Massacre in Aurora, Colorado -  And the guy who did it. – Colorado – July 2012

It is so sad what took place! It is even sadder for family members. Their lives have changed. My thoughts and my prayers go to all of them.

The first thought that comes to mind is whether the criminal has the capacity to recognize feelings that are being experienced by another sentient or semi-sentient (in fiction writing) being. Someone may need to have a certain amount of empathy before they are able to feel compassion.

One reality is: We pay way too much attention to criminal minds. We portray them on TV as something we need to learn to recognize. No! We do not need to recognize them. This is the job of a therapist, a psychologist, a pshychiatrist – Not for the media to make them celebrities. The media has the obligation to talk about the human being who departed, what their lives were like, and what they shared while in this sphere. Where they loved? Who loved them? What did they have in special to those who loved? This is what we need to concentrate on. I want to know the name of the victims

Another reality: The criminal mind should to be called joe doer. His picture should be changed into a one face - The same to all joe doers  - So we do not see a face on TV. He, or she will be judged, and family members of the victims know where he is. No need to make him a Mystery.  

Human beings are capable of anythig to get attention. Some people go the the extreme. There is no explanation to why human beings lose their empathy at times. Some people love drama! They live for it. Others like to show off. Attention deficit, is nothing more than lack of attention. We all suffer from lack of attention – But we do not go to the extreme of destroying a life. We go away! We divorce, we separate, we resolve matters. We are humans, for cries out loud.

One way or another, something went awire in the head of this Joe Doer, that he decided to terrorize an entire nation. For this particular reason, he needs to be treated as a Joe Doer. No more TV shows about him. Nothing. We can learn about it by doing a search in the net.

No more notoriety to the criminal – And only to the victims. Let’s treat any criminal as a person with no name, and a comon face. This will teach them that it ends right there!

In summary, what happened is a barbarity. It is something that must be kept off the TV waves. Prisoners have no acces to the internet. So, they do not have to watch shows that make them a notoriety.

Some changes are nacessary!

Milton Laene Araujo – July 22, 2012

Existe ceu e inferno?

O que Acontece depois que morremos? Existe ceu e inferno?

Uma das perguntas mais intrigantes de cada ser humano e a vida depois da morte. Para onde iremos? Existe ceu e inferno?

Usarei a definicao de religiao do wikipedia para poder entao usar esta palavra.
Religião (do latim religare, significando religação com o divino ^[1]) é um conjunto de sistemas culturais e de crenças, além de visões de mundo, que estabelece os símbolos que relacionam a humanidade com a espiritualidade e seu próprios valores morais.^[2] Muitas religiões têm narrativas, símbolos, tradições e histórias sagradas que se destinam a dar sentido à vida ou explicar a sua origem e do universo. As religiões tendem a derivar a moralidade, a ética, as leis religiosas ou um estilo de vida preferido de suas ideias sobre o cosmos e a natureza humana.
Nao e somente por descuido da natureza que hoje vemos varios “destinos” para a nossa alma. Existe mais de  quatro mil religioes ou denominacoes no mundo, e cada uma tem uma resposta. Uma grande quantiade de pessoas acreditam em reincarnacao. A crença de renascer noutro corpo; a crença de que vivemos antes e viveremos novamente noutro corpo após a morte. Era uma crente vulgar nas religiões orientais como o hinduismo e o budismo, mas agora é uma pedra base de teorias como a dianética e o canalizar.
Para as pessoas que acreditam em reincarnacao, apos sua morte, elas serao reincarnadas. Portanto – a resposta para os que acreditam, sera uma confirmacao daquilo que sempre souberam de corpo e alma. Num livro de Carol Bowman, “Return from Heaven” a autora descreve sobre amigos, parentes, reincarnados em sua mesma area. Hoje temos como exemplo de reincarnacao, Dalai Lama que e o decimo quarto de um grupo Tibetan.
Para as pessoas que acreditam que tudo acaba, tudo certamente vai acabar, e aquela alma cessa de existir, pois nao havera busca nem procura – Talvez um resgate.
Em poucas palavras: Cada ser vai experimentar aquilo que colocou sua fe. Cada ser nasce numa area e esta propicio a acreditar naquilo que lhe passam. Trata-se de uma vida digna de ser vivida dentro de um padrao social limitado aquilo que lhe e passado, lido, observado e vivido.
O mais dificil comeca quando somos apresentados a varios ensinamentos religiosos, varias formas de acreditar num fim, e nos perdemos completamente de uma so verdade ou crenca, e passamos a conviver com todas ao mesmo tempo. Um exemplo disso seria um catolico que vai visitar uma cartomante. Ai ja entra conflito de interesses, e o conhecimento abre portas para mais perguntas, mais crencas e assim o ser segue numa vida de busca, com varias respostas e menos certeza.
No momento em que morremos, nosso cerebro comeca a se desconectar eletricamente do nosso organismo devido a falta de exigenio, e esta conexao pode levar varios minutos para concretizar. Embora os aparelhos confirmem a morte, uma parte do cerebro pode trazer ao individuo uma recapitulacao clara daquilo que ele vivenciou, ou escutou, e geralmente isso acontece somente em casos de pessoas que foram detectadas mortas e voltaram, por assim dizer, depois de alguns minutos, e contaram as mesmas historias.
Quando um ser vai e volta, este ser vem modificado pela historia de sua vida, e o tal ultimo grasp de oxigenio que o cerebro recebe e bem maior do que os anteriores, porque antes estava dividindo com outros orgaos, e assim num flash, a pessoa acorda, e os equipamentos voltam a funcionar, e o ser fica entao paralizado temporariamente, mas vivo com as memorias que presenciou…e o medico fica pasmo, a familia acredita, e logo vem um livro contando o que viu, e assim se formam grupos de crentes nesta obervacao de que no alem e assim ou assado.
Depois que morrermos, nossa alma vai ao encontro da luz que nos cria e nos mantem. Seja em forma de alma, de espirito, de energia,ou ate com a mesma forma fisica,  Antes de chegar la ela passara por todos os obstaculos que criamos e nao reparemos. Obstaculos estes que afetaram a nos e tambem ‘aqueles que involvemos.
A nossa vida aqui na terra e uma passagem maxima de 100 anos aonde poderemos criar momentos (ou energias), sejam de bondade, sejam de crueldade. Estas energias terao repercusoes nas vidas que tocamos, e consequentemente em nossas. Veja por exemplo que gastamos mais energia ficando de mal com alguem do que ficando de bem.
Entedemos a diferenca entre Guerra e paz, pois estamos em Guerra desde que o mundo era mundo, porem, cada ser colabora nesta energia de Guerra. Cada ser mantem um sentimento, ou julgamento, baseado naquilo que acredita, ou tem fe. Ha guerras por todos os lados. Dentro de casa, nas ruas da cidade, e.na vida de cada um.
Quando dirigimos um veiculo e nos aproveitamos agressivamente no transito, estamos radiando uma energia de descontentamento, ou de Guerra. Quando roubamos, ou quando nos aproveitamos de qualquer outro ser, estamos criando obstaculos. Estes, refletirao em nossa vida, e na vida dos afetados. Se conseguirmos nos arrrepender completamente daquilo, poderemos ter uma melhor chance de nao sermos atormentados, pois o tormento existe enquanto vivemos. Se procurarmos ver o outro ser humano como uma replica nossa, poderiamos ate ser mais generosos.
Quando eu me pergunto sobre a riqueza do mundo, vejo que esta passando da mao de um para a mao do outro, e sempre aparecendo jovens ficando milionarios. Se eu acreditasse em reincarnacao, poderia deduzir que estes jovens tiveram uma vida passada com muita bondade e filantropia, num mundo aonde somente existiu Guerra, e mereceram ter dinheiro para poder entao fazer algo melhor para aqueles que nao tem. Muitos milionarios ajudam varias causas no mundo. Digo, a maioria deles. Pois doar significa deduzir nos impostos, entao isso se torna quase que uma imposicao. Assim sendo cada milionario tem a sua propria agencia filantropica, nao profitavel, aonde eles podem entao doar diretamente para uma causa que interessa o milionario. Sei que a vida de milionarios nao e um mar de rosas como se pensam. Os artistas sao perseguidos, as princesas sao presas nos palacios, os que saem na rua, saem disfarcados. Por isso nao posso confirmar minha teoria de que os que hoje sao milionarios fizeram somente bondade na vida passada.
A teoria basica da vida e a seguinte:

·        Devemos obedecer as leis criadas pelo homem,

·        Devemos praticar nossa fe seja ela qual for, sendo sempre tolerante as outras praticas, sejam elas quais forem,

·        Devemos ser toleraveis.

·        Devemos ensinar sobre varias religioes aos nossos filhos menores.

Ninguem esta acima da lei. Todo mundo obedece as leis. Elas foram criadas para resolver disputas que acontece entre os seres humanos. Ha lei pra tudo, e a cada dia se criam mais de mil leis que repara esta e aquela, e que tem precedente sobre esta ou aquela.
Todos devem praticar fe em alguma coisa que se relacione com o ser humano, e a sua capacidade de entender perdas sem retaliacoes. Como entender sonhos? Como entender a morte? como entender a razao da vida? Senao por ensinamentos religiosos. Aqueles que nao tem fe em nada vivem como luzes apagadas. Eles nao iluminam.
Se praticamos tolerancia, seremos toleravies. Somente aprenderemos a ser tolerantes quando aprendemos sobre o assunto.
Todo casal que tem bom senso sabe que existe muitas perguntas que somente fe em Deus e a certitude de que tudo ficara bem pode aclamar uma crianca. Elas merecem estarem envolvidas e praticarem a religiao dos pais, pois todas tem um caminho somente – Deus.
Cada qual escolhe o seu caminho, ou a sua forma de praticar e experimentar esta vida. Aquilo que voce acreditar acontecera com voce, e voce vivenciara isso. Entao pergunte a voce mesmo o que acontecera com voce depois que voce falecer.
Ceu e um lugar de completa felicidade e positividade, aonde todas as experiencias negativas se transformaram em positivas, dando a luz uma imensidao. O ceu nao e relativo a nada. Para o ceu voltamos para reestabelecer nossas energias, e entao continuar a jornada, ou ficar la.
O inferno e um lugar de tormento, falta de luz, falta de bondade que experimentamos enquanto vivos, devido a coisas que fizemos ou que fizeram pra nos. Este prossegue alem da vida quando somos mais negativos do que positivos, e isso nao cabe a nos julgar.  
Para finalizar, quero acrescentar que Deus criou Adao e Eva e os colocou no paraizo. La, depois de estarem por algum tempo, eles desobedeceram a Deus. Deus deu a eles o castigo da morte. Assim, logo em seguida comecou o bem e o mal a se proliferar. Antigamente se pensava que o mal seria o primojenito, e o bem o seguinte, tudo isso baseado no assassinato de um dos filhos de adao, Abel por Cain, seu irmao mais velho. E assim o mundo se desenvolveu com o bem e o mal dentro de cada um de nos. Somos os dois, e somente se soubermos viver com outros, poderemos ser mais posotivos do que negativos, e isso cabe no dia a dia de cada um de nos.
Nos veremos mais aqui e depois no Ceu.

Milton Laene Araujo 

Donate blood now!

Let’s donate blood?

I am not an expert in this subject, and my point will be very simple. Everyone should donate blood 6 times per year. Every town should have a “state of the art” post for collection in mass.

“Every three seconds someone, somewhere, needs a blood transfusion. Blood is always in demand and that’s why we’ve made it easy to donate. Florida’s Blood Centers has facilities throughout the 21 counties we serve and the Big Red Bus is always nearby at local blood drives. We also want our donors and the community to understand the importance of donating; how the blood donation process works; and how blood is used. You can find it all here.”

When my mother had my brother Mauricio, she went into a troubled cesarean, and hemorrhage occurred. My father donated blood directly to her. It was in 1972, and blood transfusion, in a small hospital in the suburbs of Brazil was nothing other than a transfusion. She later recovered, and my father continued donating blood to the same hospital for a while longer. 

I want to donate blood, for I carry the same O positive type as my father. This is not the universal donor, but it is more common. 1/3 of the population carries this type of blood. I have never donated blood because I am gay, and I always considered myself a high risk.

Recently I read that gay people are being banned of donating blood. “Blood donations are down in the U.S. this summer. Gay men have been banned from donating blood because it has been connected to the spread of AIDS. But policymakers are re-examining that ban. The debate has raged among officials, and created a national conversation, as reflected in  CNN.com comments.

I think this is absurd. Gay people also need blood, and I would care less whether I am receiving it from another gay. As long as the blood center is able to refuse or accept based in “lab tests” and not based on opinions.

The average adult has about five liters of blood inside of their body, coursing through their vessels, delivering essential elements, and removing harmful wastes. Without blood, the human body would stop working. Blood transports oxygen from the lungs to the body’s tissue and carbon dioxide from the body tissue to the lungs. Blood is the fluid of growth, transporting nourishment from digestion and hormones from glands throughout the body. Blood is the fluid of health, transporting disease fighting substances to the tissue and waste to the kidneys.

Another point is the fact that women menstruate and lose blood every month, and that blood is replenished, giving the women renewed amount of iron, and other chemicals. It helps with their health, and the proof is that women live longer.

If we share the idea that everyone should donate blood every 60 days, things will be better. Today people are afraid of the needle, and imagine that donating blood is an act of generosity, while it is an act of self maintaining. Others are simply too ignorant and too wrapped up on themselves to understand how good life will be for both parties involved, and for the nation.

I would like to see a study showing the benefit to the blood donor. I know it has benefit.

I want lawmakers to expose this benefit and encourage the entire population to donate blood.

Gay people can donate blood and have it stored in different places for different purpose.

It is stupidity to great a law banning certain groups of donating fluid of life. This is the ultimatum of all absurdity.

Milton L. Araujo

USA weird "Place Names"

When talking about weird USA place names

Ecru is the colour of unbleached linen
But it is also, a city in Mississippi.

Accident is an unexpected and undesirable event
But is also, a city in Maryland

Cool and Arcade are both in California
While Acres, Buttermilk, and Chalk are in Kansas

Early travelling in Diagonal I saw myself in Indiana
Had Bacon Hill in New York, and made a Deposit in Deposit NY before I left.

Spent Christmas, in Christmas, Florida
But had a best time in Alliance, North Carolina

Went to Agency in Missouri and bought Concrete in North Dakota.
In Chili Indiana I heard about an Avalanche in Wisconsin

Things went down in Cameo, West Virginia.

Now, when talking about Action names
Divide is in Montana while Hustle is in Virginia

Page in Arizona Parade in South Dakota
Startup in Washington and Stow in Massachusetts.

Check Virginia and Cook in Georgia.
Telegraph in Texas and Transfer in Pennsylvania.

To build my Sweet Home in Oregon I got USA products
Alcove in New York, Wall in North Dakota, Telephone in Texas.
Pool in West Virginia, Pillow from Pennsylvania and a Piano and Nursery from Texas.

Also from Pennsylvania:  Manor, Library, and the Lawn
Cabinet from Idaho and Heaters from West Virginia.

Happy Camp and Confidence lies in California
But the Bliss is in Idaho.
I Carefree in Arizona and become a Unity in Maine.

I Nevesink in New York and my Apex is in New York
Bravo Michigan and Acme Wisconsin.

Champion Nebraska joined the Jollyville in Oklahoma.

After Travelling around the World, I came back to America
to find out that the whole world is here

We have...Canada in Kentucky, China in Maine
Warsaw in North Carolina and Venus in Florida
Venice in Los Angeles and Trinidad in Colorado

Our Paris and our Syria is in Virginia and our Riviera is in Texas.
Mexico and Rome fit inside New York while London takes over Ohio.

Cuba in Illinois and Denmark in Oregon
Dover in Delaware and Geneva in Alabama.

Holland in Michigan and Ireland in West Virginia
Lima is in Montana while Mars is in Pennsylvania.

Moscou is in Tennessee and Scotland is in Connecticut
But Malta is in Idaho.


Milton L Araujo

The perfect being

Science is knowledge! And as such, it must be taken very seriously.

After I read an article about down syndrome on Wikipedia I discovered that "Individuals with Down syndrome differ considerably in their language and communication skills. It is routine to screen for middle ear problems and hearing loss; low gain hearing aids or other amplification devices can be useful for language learning". ^86] For partial glossectomy (tongue reduction), one researcher found that 1 out of 3 patients "achieved oral competence," with 2 out of 3 showing speech improvement.

Why don't we have all children with down syndrome exposed to partial tongue reduction? If it will better their quality of life. If it may even help with thyroids problem, which of, in consequence brings obesity and all  sort of other problems.

On another related article, it stated that 91–93% of pregnancies in the United Kingdom and Europe with a diagnosis of Down syndrome were terminated.^[73] Data from the National Down Syndrome Cytogenetic Register .
In the United States a number of studies have examined the abortion rate of fetuses with Down syndrome. Three studies estimated the termination rates at 95%, 98%, and 87% respectively.^[73]

Medical ethicist Ronald Green argues that parents have an obligation to avoid 'genetic harm' to their offspring,^[76] and Claire Rayner, then a patron of the Down's Syndrome Association, defended testing and abortion saying "The hard facts are that it is costly in terms of human effort, compassion, energy, and finite resources such as money, to care for individuals with handicaps... People who are not yet parents should ask themselves if they have the right to inflict such burdens on others, however willing they are themselves to take their share of the burden in the beginning."^[77]

 Peter Singer argued that "neither haemophilia nor Down's syndrome is so crippling as to make life not worth living from the inner perspective of the person with the condition. To abort a fetus with one of these disabilities, intending to have another child who will not be disabled, is to treat fetuses as interchangeable or replaceable. If the mother has previously decided to have a certain number of children, say two, then what she is doing, in effect, is rejecting one potential child in favour of another. She could, in defence of her actions, say: the loss of life of the aborted fetus is outweighed by the gain of a better life for the normal child who will be conceived only if the disabled one dies".

This is far too much to digest in a simple page. It seems that science, capable of detecting a fetus with "abnormalities", jumps the gun in selling the tool of "detection" and prevention, forgetting that it needs to fix the abnormality.
For now, science needs to create a device that reverses the entire process of development of the chromosome that carries the abnormality.

Down syndrome disorders are based on having too many copies of the genes located on chromosome 21. In general, this leads to an over expression of the genes. Understanding the genes involved may help to target medical treatment to individuals with Down syndrome. It is estimated that chromosome 21 contains 200 to 250 genes. Recent research has identified a region of the chromosome that contains the main genes responsible for the pathogenesis of Down syndrome, located proximal to 21q22.3. The search for major genes involved in Down syndrome characteristics is normally in the region 21q21–21q22.3

If abortion is ever to be considered legal, from a law point of view, it would bring a pandemonium into people's lives, that can not ever be fixed. To begin, science and abortion will work side by side, eliminating from the face of the earth every fetus that has this or that abnormality. Scientists would become greedy and forget their principal objective, which is prevention of abnormalities by scientific means of resetting the DNA configuration of that particular abnormality.

Science needs to change its gears from corrective maintenance to preventive maintenance. Science now is stagnated in finding how to correct this or that disease, caused by this or that abnormalities. Scientists are more concerned in creating pills. For now science is working side by side with free market or capitalism. 

Science should only be used for the benefit of humans, and not for enrichment of enterprises. 

It is fair to say that scientists are able to manipulate an allele, which  is one of two or more forms of a gene or a genetic locus (generally a group of genes).^[1][2] The form "allel" is also used, an abbreviation of allelomorph. Sometimes, different alleles can result in different observable phenotypic traits, such as different pigmentation. However, many variations at the genetic level result in little or no observable variation.

A number of genetic disorders are caused when an individual inherits two recessive alleles for a single-gene trait. Recessive genetic disorders include Albinism, Cystic Fibrosis, Galactosemia, Phenylketonuria (PKU), and Tay-Sachs Disease. Other disorders are also due to recessive alleles, but because the gene locus is located on the X chromosome, so that males have only one copy (that is, they are hemizygous), they are more frequent in males than in females. Examples include red-green color blindness and Fragile X syndrome.
Other disorders, such as Huntington disease, occur when an individual inherits only one dominant allele.

Science needs to put more effort into modifying the composition of a defected allel. Science needs to get its priority straight.

By now we all - I mean, every individual should have a DNA identification, which would refer to a central global communication for all means related with law enforcement, forensics, and medical. Along with our identification, a daily reading of our blood content would indicate which nutrients are necessary for that day. Science should be more advanced than what it is now. We need good scientists. We need to praise the good ones, who are studying  prevention of abnormalities by manipulating genes, and not those more interested in creating a new pill to make this or that go away.

I am not against progress. I just do not appreciate when progress come in such a high cost for everyone.

By now we should have humans beings immune of any diseases, that can live at least 300 years with only one appearance, perfect weight, and controlled mood, etc. A perfect human being who was perfected to live in this environment by his fellow human, who used science to manipulate genes, creating pure-breads from within hybrids.

Can we get there, finally?

Milton